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Posted by: RoadGlue Aug 18 2006, 05:37 PM

This just came down through the Fiat pipeline. I don't have any more information than this... Let's keep him and his loved ones in our prayers.

"James Montebello had something break inside his head
yesterday evening. He is in a coma in Mills and
it don't look too good. Seems like brain stem damage..

I'm not sure how many of you know him, but he is one
of the good people of the world, so put all your powers
into helping him here."

Does anyone else here have more information?

This is terrible.

Posted by: StratPlayer Aug 18 2006, 05:41 PM

Wow,, I hope this isn't true. Damn he post here a lot, I don't know him personally but I sure hope that he is ok.

Posted by: Brett W Aug 18 2006, 05:42 PM

Yeah this sucks if it is real. He has been around since the Porschelist days.

Posted by: TonyAKAVW Aug 18 2006, 05:42 PM

Oh crap! He's got to be one of the top technical resources on this board!
Never met him in person but would like to some day.

I'm definitely sending good thoughts that way, hoping to hear some good news.

-Tony

Posted by: RoadGlue Aug 18 2006, 05:43 PM

I'm trying to get more info from the Fiat crowd. I'll pass on any additional information I can get. *sigh*

Posted by: Joe Sharp Aug 18 2006, 05:46 PM

James is one of the reason I go to the events up north. Really miss him at the gatherings.
Good Luck James.
Come back to us.
Joe

Posted by: davep Aug 18 2006, 05:51 PM

This is bad news indeed. My thoughts are with him and his family.

Posted by: elwood-914 Aug 18 2006, 05:52 PM

NO! He's a great resoursce. He is smart and did not get down on you no matter how trivial your question was......praying

Posted by: bondo Aug 18 2006, 05:59 PM

That's awful news! I'm officially sending all my best positive thoughts in his direction!

Posted by: iamchappy Aug 18 2006, 06:00 PM

I will keep you in my prayers brother fourteener.

Posted by: Bleyseng Aug 18 2006, 06:05 PM

this is terrible news.!!

Hope James gets better and he is in my thoughts and prayers !

Posted by: Lou W Aug 18 2006, 06:07 PM

I will keep him in my prayers

Posted by: Midtowner Aug 18 2006, 06:11 PM

I am in shock.

This is very sad news. Only met James a few times but he is a really nice guy. I'm sending my best thoughts to him for a hopeful recovery.

Posted by: MattR Aug 18 2006, 06:22 PM

Sorry to hear it. Keep us updated.

Posted by: Rotary'14 Aug 18 2006, 06:23 PM

The guy IS a fountain of technical advice! Let's hope our good wishes and prayers will help him pull thru. My best wishes to his family,, I'm sure it's tough on them.

-Rob

Posted by: drew365 Aug 18 2006, 06:36 PM

Shocking news. I always knew when I looked at a reply from James I would learn something. I hope he fully recovers soon.

Posted by: neo914-6 Aug 18 2006, 06:43 PM

Posted by: Eric_Shea Aug 18 2006, 06:44 PM

James is an awesome person. Major prayers for him.

Let's see if we can get a closer source and find out how we can help.

I hope this can turn into good news...

Bummed.....

Posted by: Mueller Aug 18 2006, 06:48 PM

That is terrible, James is a great guy, best wishes to him and his family...

Posted by: gregrobbins Aug 18 2006, 07:03 PM

Got to meet and sit next to James at the last Bay Area breakfast. Very nice man and very knowledgable about our cars. Thoughts and prayers James.

Bay area people, keep us informed and let us kown if there is anything we can do for James and his family.

Posted by: fiid Aug 18 2006, 07:03 PM

This is terrible. Him and his family are in our thoughts and wishes.

Posted by: Greg Bell Aug 18 2006, 07:04 PM

My prayers go out to him and his family.

Posted by: rickyhgarcia Aug 18 2006, 07:08 PM

This is so sad...and so sudden. He posted in the forums yesterday afternoon...

Posted by: cooltimes Aug 18 2006, 07:18 PM

James is at the very top of the people I respect on here thru his technical data as well as his manners on the list. Our family in this 914-land are asking for James to recover so will the main MECHANIC in charge please look down and help James.
Thank you.

MikeCool

Posted by: Jeroen Aug 18 2006, 07:25 PM

Hang in there James!
Good vibes coming your way

Posted by: sixnotfour Aug 18 2006, 07:26 PM

God Bless....

Posted by: 914_1.8t Aug 18 2006, 07:39 PM

OMG....this is terrible news.

I was looking forward to meeting him, he was supposed to stop by my place to pick up some parts today...my best wishes to him and his family.

Posted by: carreraguy Aug 18 2006, 07:39 PM

James is a great guy; talked to him at more than one SF Bay Area breakfast. I'm sure the thoughts and prayers of all the Bay area folk are with him.

Posted by: fiid Aug 18 2006, 07:43 PM

I just called the hospital and left my number for the family. The nurse said "he's going to be with us for a while", so sounds encouraging.

Posted by: Headrage Aug 18 2006, 07:47 PM

That is terrible news...

All the positive thoughts I can muster up are heading his way...

Posted by: So.Cal.914 Aug 18 2006, 08:10 PM

Prayers sent on his behalf and his family.

Posted by: Elliot Cannon Aug 18 2006, 08:15 PM

QUOTE(fiid @ Aug 18 2006, 06:43 PM)

Posted by: Jake Raby Aug 18 2006, 08:15 PM

Oh man...

Not the news I wanted to see when I opened up the forum.....

Prayers have begun

Posted by: fiid Aug 18 2006, 08:25 PM

QUOTE(Elliot Cannon @ Aug 18 2006, 07:15 PM)

QUOTE(fiid @ Aug 18 2006, 06:43 PM)

I just called the hospital and left my number for the family. The nurse said "he's going to be with us for a while", so sounds encouraging.

When she said "he's going to with us for awhile." Did she mean with them in the hospital, or with us meaning "us all"?

Posted by: jkeyzer Aug 18 2006, 08:27 PM

This is very upsetting news. James is a pillar of the bay area community and a huge technical resource. I hope that some good news comes shortly. If there is anything I can do to help please let me know.

Posted by: McMark Aug 18 2006, 08:37 PM

James is right at the top of my People-I-Respect-Very-Much list. I hope it turns out okay. I'm anxious to hear more about what happened. Very troubling.

Get better soon, man!

Posted by: DNHunt Aug 18 2006, 08:55 PM

James will be in my prayers.

Dave

Posted by: JRust Aug 18 2006, 09:01 PM

Definately in my prayers! Hang in there James

Posted by: Mrs. K Aug 18 2006, 09:12 PM

To James and family.........many many prayers and good vibes!

Hang in there James.......you will love reading all of these good wishes when you wake up!


Lisa

Posted by: jonwatts Aug 18 2006, 09:13 PM

NO! This is terrible. James is such a great guy to be around. Very articulate, passionate, and SMART!

We have to send some flowers or something. If anybody is putting something together please PM or email me.

Hang in there, James. A lot of us are praying for you.




Thank you Randy, for letting us know.

Posted by: wbergtho Aug 18 2006, 09:15 PM

I remember conversing with him on a number of occasions. Damn...am I bummed out to hear this. All my positive thoughts and energy is sent his way. Let's hope for a dramatic recovery! I've seen miracles happen before...

Posted by: lotus_65 Aug 18 2006, 09:16 PM

he has helped me a lot, i hope he recovers soon.

all my best.

paul

Posted by: Trevorg7 Aug 18 2006, 09:18 PM

wow. he is a very giving person. my families prayers are with him and his family.

T

Posted by: tiim5 Aug 18 2006, 09:19 PM

James is a rare individual, great intellect, generous and a gentleman.
a true renaissance man.
I will try to go by Mills tomorrow to check on him.

Posted by: dion9146 Aug 18 2006, 09:20 PM

hang in there James! we need more great FAQ's!!!! you are in our prayers!!!

Dion

Posted by: trekkor Aug 18 2006, 09:26 PM

James, get well soon.

Hang in there, buddy.

We need to send in the 914 Club visitor crowd. Where is he?


KT

Posted by: mikez Aug 18 2006, 09:28 PM

Yikes....my prayers from here in the Islands....

Posted by: jonwatts Aug 18 2006, 09:32 PM

For those you that appreciate the man but maybe haven't met him, here he is at our July breakfast...

Posted by: KELTY360 Aug 18 2006, 09:44 PM

Terrible news. I always read his posts carefully. Hoping for the best.

Posted by: Aaron Cox Aug 18 2006, 09:48 PM

James,

my prayers are on their way for you. Hang in there, and come back to us

AA

Posted by: Jeff Bowlsby Aug 18 2006, 09:51 PM

James...its not your time yet. We will keep hope alive....and we will have a 914 party in your honor as soon as you are able.

Posted by: bondo Aug 18 2006, 10:05 PM

For those of you who may not have been around here long enough to come to appreciate James, here is a recent example of his contributions: http://www.914world.com/bbs2/index.php?showtopic=55022

Get well soon James!

Posted by: grantsfo Aug 18 2006, 10:11 PM

Sending prayers your way James. Hang in there.

Posted by: boxstr Aug 18 2006, 10:19 PM

I just had a few emails with James on Mini mokes. He is a great resource.
I am really sorry to read this. I feel like I really know him.

Craig C. laughlin

Posted by: Dr Evil Aug 18 2006, 10:23 PM

Crap, James is definetly one of the ones that I would like to be more like.

I hope he gets well soon, let us all know if/when we can do something.

Posted by: jhadler Aug 18 2006, 10:24 PM

I'm stunned...

Nothing but good thoughts to you and your familly.

If someone is going to collect money for flowers or anything else, please let us know.

-Josh2

Posted by: rick 918-S Aug 18 2006, 10:30 PM

Very sad news. Hoping for a positive update.

Posted by: echocanyons Aug 18 2006, 11:04 PM

Pull through this James!

Our thoughts are with you.

Posted by: DonTraver Aug 18 2006, 11:10 PM

Bummer, all my best, so sorry to hear about this.
Don't know what else to say.

Take Care, Don

Posted by: Twystd1 Aug 18 2006, 11:17 PM

I don't remember feeling this much for a man I have never met...

He is in Gods hands now....

No matter the end result...

Thanks lapuwali for all you have given me and to all the people you have touched

Twystd1

Posted by: Hoss Aug 19 2006, 12:23 AM

Hate seeing news like this when signing on to the forum typically means that posts by lapuwali are educational and fun. It just reminds me that for all the enjoyment cars can seem to bring, it is always the characters behind them that are the real deal.

I have never met James, but he is in my prayers tonight. God speed.

Posted by: scruz914 Aug 19 2006, 12:47 AM

Man, I log in to check things out after being away for several weeks to read this. I had the pleasure of meeting James at a breakfast and have enjoyed his posts. Hopefully he can pull through this and make a healthy comeback.

-Jeff

Posted by: shaggy Aug 19 2006, 03:53 AM

Oh man...

i hope everything turns out well..
hope he makes a quick and full recovery..



-jim

Posted by: maf914 Aug 19 2006, 07:37 AM

I never met him, but James seems to be a geat guy. I always enjoy his posts. He has my best wishes.

Posted by: elwood-914 Aug 19 2006, 08:59 AM

Has a gift of writing. Seems like a great guy too.

Posted by: Eric_Shea Aug 19 2006, 08:59 AM

I've set up a PayPal donation fund. I looked through the thread and didn't see one yet. I hope it's appropriate.

Let's get some flowers and if the family needs more help with our nations lovely insurance system maybe we could help with the rest of the money going toward that.

Please friends, give as James has given to you:

https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_xclick&business=ericscottshea%40cs%2ecom&item_name=James%20%28Lapuwali%29%20Montebello%20Fund&no_shipping=2&no_note=1&tax=0&currency_code=USD&bn=PP%2dDonationsBF&charset=UTF%2d8

Posted by: bondo Aug 19 2006, 09:43 AM

QUOTE(Eric_Shea @ Aug 19 2006, 07:59 AM)

Posted by: gklinger Aug 19 2006, 09:58 AM

Terrible news. James is one of the most knowledgeable guys in the (non)club. He's in my thoughts. Donation sent (thanks Eric).

Posted by: Randal Aug 19 2006, 10:12 AM

We are all looking forward to your speedy recovery James.

Posted by: seanery Aug 19 2006, 10:30 AM

Best wishes for a quick & full recovery

Posted by: J P Stein Aug 19 2006, 10:42 AM

Something like this has happened to a couple of my friends.....and that is way too many. One fully recovered and the other is in process....a slow process as the brain rewires it's self. I can only pray that James has the same ...luck, cause that's what it is.

Posted by: Mark Henry Aug 19 2006, 11:01 AM

OMG! Just saw this!

Get well James!

Posted by: Gint Aug 19 2006, 11:32 AM

QUOTE(Eric_Shea @ Aug 19 2006, 08:59 AM)

Posted by: 396 Aug 19 2006, 12:26 PM

QUOTE(RoadGlue @ Aug 18 2006, 04:37 PM)

This just came down through the Fiat pipeline. I don't have any more information than this... Let's keep him and his loved ones in our prayers.

"James Montebello had something break inside his head
yesterday evening. He is in a coma in Mills and
it don't look too good. Seems like brain stem damage..

I'm not sure how many of you know him, but he is one
of the good people of the world, so put all your powers
into helping him here."

Does anyone else here have more information?

This is terrible.

Posted by: Eric_Shea Aug 19 2006, 12:35 PM

Thanks Gint...

Posted by: Carl Aug 19 2006, 12:40 PM

That's a shocker ... best wishes for a speedy recovery.

Posted by: Dr Evil Aug 19 2006, 12:43 PM

For at least the next 10 sets of CV bolts I sell, ALL proceeds will go to James's fund. He has bailed me out MANY times and I know how to appreciate the tactfully intellectual

Posted by: RoadGlue Aug 19 2006, 12:48 PM

QUOTE(Eric_Shea @ Aug 19 2006, 07:59 AM)

Posted by: SirAndy Aug 19 2006, 01:34 PM

QUOTE(Gint @ Aug 19 2006, 10:32 AM)

Posted by: jsteele22 Aug 19 2006, 01:37 PM

Wow, a big shock. When I started reading the thread, I was hoping this was some kind of sick joke, or a big mistake. Sounds like that ain't the case. lapuwali, we're all pulling for you.

Posted by: fiid Aug 19 2006, 04:15 PM

Hey all,

I just got a call from James' wife Susan. He had an anneurysm that popped in his head on Thursday night. It seems it was all over at this point. I believe he is still on life support, but he is not expected to recover.

Sorry to not have better news. James is an extemely bright chap, I'm honored to be able to call him a friend. This is very sad news indeed.

Fiid.



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Posted by: drewvw Aug 19 2006, 04:18 PM

wow I just saw this now. James, please hang in there and get better....

Posted by: lotus_65 Aug 19 2006, 04:24 PM

$$

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get well soon, james.

Posted by: McMark Aug 19 2006, 04:29 PM

I was thinking aneurysm. I had a good friend in high school who popped one on the way to early morning science class. Her's had to have surgery and caused short term memory loss for a few years. It was trippy to see her in the hospital and would do the exact same thing 3 or 4 times but not remember each time. An aneurysm is a scary thing because you never know when it'll go and you probably never know you have one until it goes.

Get well soon James!

Posted by: jonwatts Aug 19 2006, 04:32 PM

Just reading this now... http://www.bafound.org/info/index.php

Posted by: Bruce Allert Aug 19 2006, 04:37 PM

I am sad
I am sorry...
Praying for you and yours James.

.....b

Posted by: tiim5 Aug 19 2006, 05:05 PM

I just got home from the hospital visiting James. fiid, Susan was on the phone with you when I arrived.

James was on life support, he wlll be removed from the life support system.

Susan expressed her deep gratitude for all the kind words she has received from his friends.

She was moved by how richly James was loved and admired.

She said when she is ready, she will appreciate assistance in moving his "914 stuff in the garage"

I told her we would be gladly assist when she is ready.

Susan was so gracious.

If I receive information about services I'll pass it on.

Posted by: SirAndy Aug 19 2006, 05:10 PM

QUOTE(tiim5 @ Aug 19 2006, 04:05 PM)

Posted by: elwood-914 Aug 19 2006, 05:12 PM

He will be missed terribly on this board. I enjoyed all of his replies to everyone. He had a great way of bringing forth his wealth of knowledge.

Posted by: DNHunt Aug 19 2006, 05:14 PM

Damn, I think I want to have a good cry. I will pray for some kind of miracle, peace and comfort for the family and for James.

Dave

Posted by: bmunday Aug 19 2006, 05:15 PM

Someone mentioned a collection for flowers, family financial assistance. My Prayersrs to James and his family...

I have never had the chance to meet James, let alone most people on this board, but I can't help but feel I have lost a friend.

Posted by: Eric_Shea Aug 19 2006, 05:17 PM

James,

I hope you're felling better now. It is us for whom we cry and ache now. It is Susan for whom we pray now. You're soon to be in a better place.

We'll really miss you bud. It will not be the same around here without you. Thanks for taking care of my brother without batting an eye. We never met but I imagine that's the type of person you were... thanks for all your help around here too.

I hope to meet up with you some day. Maybe we can share a laugh about all of this.

Godspeed James. Godspeed.

Posted by: Eric_Shea Aug 19 2006, 05:18 PM

Please donate... the button is on page 4.

Posted by: Dr Evil Aug 19 2006, 05:25 PM

Life is truley unfair. I am glad to have corresponded with you at least, James. Thanks for all of you help and your presence around here.

Angry + Sad. Gotta weep now.

Posted by: Joe Sharp Aug 19 2006, 05:27 PM

Excuse me. I'm having a hard time trying to put this together.
I can't think of even 10 of us that have the knowlage that Mr. Montebello carried and shared with us. I am deeply sadened by this event.
Susan, I'm sorry that I have not had the pleaasure of meeting you or James.
I will surely miss James as I am sure that my brothers and sisters here will also.
DAMN, I'm losing a HERO.
Joe Sharp

Posted by: jonwatts Aug 19 2006, 05:27 PM

Praying for a miracle.



I'm crushed.

Posted by: Lou W Aug 19 2006, 05:31 PM

I am so sorry to hear the updates, I will continue to pray for his family.

Posted by: gregrobbins Aug 19 2006, 05:33 PM

Not the news I wanted to hear.

I got to meet James at the Bay Area Breakfast last month. Sure glad I had the chance to meet him in person.

Bay area teeners are a great crowd. Look after Susan and let the rest of us know what we can do to help.

Sad beyond words.

Posted by: fiid Aug 19 2006, 05:47 PM

QUOTE(jonwatts @ Aug 19 2006, 04:27 PM)

Posted by: type47fan Aug 19 2006, 06:20 PM

Our collective, conscious life is truly a gift not to be taken for granted. . .it can be over in an instant. Such a very, very sad and sudden turn for the family and for all of us. I only knew him from his posts and yet I'm devastated.

Prayers and best wishes . . . .

Posted by: 9146986 Aug 19 2006, 06:29 PM

I don't think there's anything anyone can say that will make this better.

Some of the best information and most realistic opinions were from James. Although I never met him, I always respected what he had to say.

The apparent lack of suffering is the only ray of light in this very dark situation.

Comfort and grace for his Wife, Family, and Friends. All of you that personally knew James, please accept my condolences, and let his friendship always be a blessing to you.

This is so sad.

Posted by: nine14cats Aug 19 2006, 06:38 PM

I am very sad about this happenning to James. He's been a great resource and overall great person to know. I'm one of the fortunate bay area club members who have talked with James in person several times. We've exchanged ideas and he even bought a motor from me. Only a few weeks ago we were talking about lightweight race cars and he offered to build a lightweight electrical harness for Fritz. Didn't want anything in return, he just thought it would be a fun thing to do.

I will miss James.

My prayers are with him and his family.

Bill P.

p.s. here's another pic of James with me taken by my wife when we were over at his house delivering the engine last year.




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Posted by: Trevorg7 Aug 19 2006, 07:31 PM

I am extremely saddened and stunned. Life is truly fragile which can be fantastic and yet so cruel. I've read so much about how knowledgeable James was but I would like to share a brief story about the man and how giving he was.

Some months ago, before I met James formally, my clutch cable broke near my office. 42 miles from home I posted the issue on this board and received responses and help. James in particular offered, without hesitation, to bring the needed jack, tools, etc to my dark cold parking lot after work hours to help me fix my car. Did he have to, no. Would most of us give our time as he did, good question. During the brief time I've got to know him, James was without question one of the most unconditionally giving people I know.

Giving, passion, and respect are only a few words to describe the man.

I've cried. I'm saddened. I will cry again.

Love

T

Posted by: MrKona Aug 19 2006, 07:48 PM

So sad.

I never met James, but always enjoyed reading is post, and recognized that he was not only knowledgable, but did not hesitate to lend is time and knowledge to others.

Appreciate every day you spend on this earth and don't hesitate to tell someone in your life how important they are to you.

Posted by: Ferg Aug 19 2006, 08:03 PM

James and his family are in our prayers.

Ferg.

Posted by: URY914 Aug 19 2006, 08:14 PM

Everyone here needs to go hug thier wife and kids.

Godspeed, lapuwali

Posted by: grasshopper Aug 19 2006, 09:06 PM

Wow, I have never felt this way about someone that I havn't met before. This is horrible. You were a great person and a great asset to the club. You will be missed and will be in all of our prayers. Thank you for being a wonderful person james. Godspeed.

Posted by: jimtab Aug 19 2006, 09:11 PM

Well, as usual....late on everything...what a shame. As my granddad said to me when I lost my first friend...someone dies everyday and it's never the right person....a truly sad moment, a truly nice and caring person...a light has gone out in the world. My best wishes to James' family. And to his "914 family" let's just remember him as he was, as long as we do he'll never really be gone.

Posted by: Jeff Bowlsby Aug 19 2006, 09:12 PM

This is a great tragedy for all of us. Hopefully James will be in a place soon where there is no more pain. Our thoughts and condolences are especially with James' family in this difficult time.

Susan if you are reading this, or Ed or anyone who has contact with his family, I hope you will make certain that Susan knows we are here to help her in anyway we can. 914club to the rescue. What can we do to help? Just name it.

Please feel free to just contact us through the mail links on this board or make posting or new thread.

Posted by: reverie Aug 19 2006, 09:46 PM

I like the understated and gentle humor he used... like when we asked him what "lapuwali" meant, and he wouldn't tell.

It's hard to type while crying.

Posted by: bd1308 Aug 19 2006, 11:47 PM

I can't believe this. Its so shocking. He really knew what he was doing on these cars, I never met him in person, but he seemed to treat everybody with great respect.

I certainly will miss him and I valued every word he had to say on the 914.

Rest in Peace buddy!

b

Posted by: neo914-6 Aug 20 2006, 12:37 AM

I'd like to share a few of my great experiences of James.

Early last year I was shopping for seats for the neo914 and purchased his Paddy Hopkirk seats. Months later I decided to use other seats and he took them back no questions asked.

Later that year he only needed some rear calipers from my parts car but in the pic you'll notice him helping load an engine.

God Bless James!


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Posted by: Scott Carlberg Aug 20 2006, 01:47 AM

QUOTE(jimtab @ Aug 19 2006, 06:11 PM)

Posted by: KaptKaos Aug 20 2006, 01:48 AM

Prayers sent for James, Susan and their family.

Godspeed James.

Posted by: VegasRacer Aug 20 2006, 06:37 AM

Peace

Posted by: MW 914 Aug 20 2006, 07:17 AM

Wow....

His family is in our thoughts.

Posted by: markb Aug 20 2006, 07:34 AM

This is indeed a sad day.

Godspeed, James. You will be missed.

Posted by: aircooledboy Aug 20 2006, 09:03 AM

If there was an emoticon for "this post proceeded by 30 minutes of quiet weeping", I would have used it right here.

We are reminded once again that this club is more than a place to get torque specs. This is the second time I have cried for folks I never met.

It was easy to see from his posts that James was all the things everyone has already said. I learned more from James' well thought out posts than from any other source. He made hard stuff easy to understand, even for those of us who aren't as accomplished as others. A few weeks back I had the chance to tell him that, and he replied by thanking me for my thanking him. What a guy. I am especially glad now I had the chance to tell him "Thanks"

Godspeed indeed, James. You will be missed, on many levels.

Posted by: spare time toys Aug 20 2006, 09:39 AM

Emotions are so hard to put down here. There will be a void here that will remain. We will be here for the family and friends to lean on when called upon for such. Thank you for all the tips and knowledge you have shared.

Posted by: Headrage Aug 20 2006, 11:03 AM

This is very terrible news.

I wish only the best for his family.

Thanks for all the help James.

Posted by: Mrs. K Aug 20 2006, 11:51 AM

Peace to you James, and comfort for your family


Lisa

Posted by: Racer Chris Aug 20 2006, 11:52 AM

QUOTE(reverie @ Aug 19 2006, 11:46 PM)

Posted by: Root_Werks Aug 20 2006, 12:09 PM

I just caught up on this thread. Wow, I can't even say how sorry I am. My thoughts are with his family for sure.

Posted by: MW 914 Aug 20 2006, 01:17 PM

Small donation sent for flowers/whatever might be needed. Can those that are closest to the family keep us posted as needs arise and are better identified?

Posted by: Dr Evil Aug 20 2006, 03:11 PM

I still do not know what "lapuwali" means. I always thought it a bit odd that he had the avatar with the "assholes garage" sign in it for so long. I never saw a cause for it to fit him. I guess its like calling a fat guy slim, or a 7' guy tinny.

Just concentrating on the good times.

Posted by: jonwatts Aug 20 2006, 03:17 PM

Similar to his avatar, the name is also not accurate. He told me (and others) that lapuwali was a hawaiian word meaning "good for nothing". It always got a laugh.

Posted by: Dr Evil Aug 20 2006, 03:19 PM

Ha! Thanks, that laugh felt needed

I am sure to be using that name to describe things from now on

Posted by: Eric_Shea Aug 20 2006, 03:32 PM

Last night I told my wife I needed a minute.

I went out in the garage to have a good cry while looking at the beast that brought us all here. I paused for a moment and looked up, there at my feet was a box with a "James Montebello" shipping label on it... too cool. That sent shivers down my spine (and got the flow started again). He sent me a piece of 911 tin and said, all he wanted in return was some advice on air pump plugs...

LOL... imagine me giving advice to James! Almost as funny as him saying I "helped" him with the Brake FAQ. What a nut.

Posted by: Dr. Roger Aug 20 2006, 04:21 PM

QUOTE(Eric_Shea @ Aug 20 2006, 02:32 PM)

Last night I told my wife I needed a minute.

I went out in the garage to have a good cry while looking at the beast that brought us all here. I paused for a moment and looked up, there at my feet was a box with a "James Montebello" shipping label on it... too cool. That sent shivers down my spine (and got the flow started again). He sent me a piece of 911 tin and said, all he wanted in return was some advice on air pump plugs...

LOL... imagine me giving advice to James! Almost as funny as him saying I "helped" him with the Brake FAQ. What a nut.

Posted by: bd1308 Aug 20 2006, 05:09 PM

I was almost going to sell the oil bath filter he GAVE me, but i'm either going to use it on my car, or clean it out and put it in my room or something.

He was very kind.

b

Posted by: Engman Aug 20 2006, 05:21 PM

I read this earlier today and was speechless. I thought about him and his family all day....

Peace to you James

Your kindness will be missed

m

Posted by: ArtechnikA Aug 20 2006, 05:36 PM

We never met but we had many online conversations in threads here; I'm glad to call him a friend. Bad things do happen to good people and we can only hope there's a plan for it all.

Posted by: JohnnyX Aug 20 2006, 05:55 PM

My son and I met him on the 2006 Alpine 500. Very knowledgeable fellow and I have benefited from the information in his postings. I enjoyed meeting him in person. To his family, we are sorry for your loss. John and Ian

Posted by: Dion Aug 20 2006, 06:55 PM

so very sorry to hear this news. Godspeed to you James and your family. I always enjoyed reading James answers. Dion

Posted by: chrisg Aug 20 2006, 08:12 PM

I never (unfortunately) met James, but I do know that we shared one passion, which is why we all hang out here. This has affected me all weekend more than I can explain. I will dearly miss his posts and knowledge.
Godspeed James.

Posted by: wbergtho Aug 20 2006, 08:15 PM

I'm so sorry to hear this. Rest in peace my friend.

Posted by: SGB Aug 20 2006, 09:01 PM

Thanks, James. I wish peace for your friends and family.

Posted by: grasshopper Aug 20 2006, 09:11 PM

Orginially any profits from the SEC were going to the local ronald Mcdonald house, but I feel that at this point, it would be more appropriate to donate it to James's family, if that is alright with everyone. I think that it would be appropriate to recognize james for all he has done for us.

Posted by: LvSteveH Aug 20 2006, 09:39 PM

I only spoke with James a few times, but Dr Evil hit the nail on the head by calling him a "tactfully intellectual". It was truly my pleasure, and I'll miss him.

Posted by: boxstr Aug 20 2006, 10:32 PM

James got the 2.2 4 cylinder motor out of JLO. We corresponded and spoke on the phone a few times about the motor and other things. I remember it like it was yesterday, right now I wish it was.
CCL

Posted by: Jenny Aug 20 2006, 10:44 PM

Brian and I had the pleasure of meeting and speaking with James at length a couple years ago at a McDonald's breakfast. He struck me immediately as being a very kind, knowledgable, and gentle man. Very well spoken. Thru the many breakfasts since then, I have gotten to know James better, and my respect for him grew.

Lapuwali is an anagram for a hawaiian word or phrase meaning good for nothing. I remember James told me he scrambled up the letters a good one, and it was some sort of inside joke.

I was gone all weekend and just now read thru this thread. Sorry if this sounds blunt, but does anyone know if we can still visit James? That is, is he still at Mills?

I am deeply saddened and once again reminded of how precious life is. Only a month ago, James had approached me about the BBQ up in Napa. We only spoke briefly. I took for granted that we would have many more opportunities to speak again..

Prayers for James and his family.

Jenny

Posted by: Joe Sharp Aug 20 2006, 10:48 PM

I'm still fucshen crying...

Posted by: Dr Evil Aug 20 2006, 10:56 PM

Figured since I couldnt get my mind off of it I would look it up.

"Lapuwale!

[lah' poo vah' leh !]


Fool! Good-for-nothing! Worthless! Wretch! Scoundrel!

Lapu means ghost, phantom."

The last one realy got to me...

Posted by: Dr Evil Aug 20 2006, 10:59 PM

I like this one better. It more accurate

"Helu `ekahi!

[heh' loo eh kah' hee !]


Number one! First rate!" Ahmen brother.

Posted by: McMark Aug 20 2006, 11:06 PM

I still can't wrap my head around how sudden all of this is...

Barry, I think you have a very honorable idea there.

Posted by: Toast Aug 20 2006, 11:26 PM

I just read this although I had heard about it over the weekend.
I am tremendously sadden! :cry: Sadly, I can not recall if I had met James before. But what has been said about him in this tread says it all.

'I am sorry that you had to leave us James. Please watch over us as we carry on and celebrate with one of your cherished passions. Bless all of those whose lives he touched.'

Posted by: Brando Aug 20 2006, 11:29 PM

I'm sorry I never got to meet you, James. I hope things are better for you now.

My thoughts and good hopes go to his family

Posted by: JB 914 Aug 21 2006, 12:23 AM

Praying for a recovery James. I will keep you and your family in my prayers during this difficult time.

Posted by: jonwatts Aug 21 2006, 12:47 AM

The first time I met James was at
http://www.914world.com/bbs2/index.php?showtopic=33132&b=1&st=&p=&#entry I didn't remember him (or a few others that were there) because I was late and was focused on what John was saying, and because I suck. He came by about a month later to help with a car (like he's done plenty of times for others here) and I remember thinking "don't you have something better to do?" But he helped me do a compression check on the motor and a bunch of other stuff, and he offered to come back for more (just a 50 mile round trip in his Type3).

And that was my introduction to James. Over the following months I really enjoyed talking to him at the Bay Area breakfasts. He helped us expand those breakfasts beyond Santa Clara to Foster City, Oakland and Fremont. I like to think we have a lot in common and I looked forward to exploring that more over the coming months and years.

I really feel for what his family must be going through these past few days.


Jon

Posted by: neo914-6 Aug 21 2006, 01:11 AM

QUOTE(jonwatts @ Aug 20 2006, 11:47 PM)

Posted by: elwood-914 Aug 21 2006, 03:56 AM

Amazing! You don't see someone make such an impact on so many lives in such an unassuming way. Very special man.
Barry, way to come to the plate young man!

Posted by: Jake Raby Aug 21 2006, 06:01 AM

WOW,
what a way to start a Monday morning :-(

James had a VERY good head on his shoulders, plenty of experience and it was apparent. I never exchanged thoughts or information with himmoff the board, but from what he posted here I could tell that he knew his stuff- the way he approached sharing his knowledge was also notable. I only wish that i had the talent to make people understand what I want them to know with his level of finesse and care for the reader.

Life is truly cherished, times like this make us all realize that today could be the day.

Godspeed-

Posted by: ptravnic Aug 21 2006, 06:18 AM

Damn. The guy gave more than he received. Never met James but certaianly benefited from his knowledge & generosity.

What a loss for our community.

My thoughts to his family.

-pt

Posted by: tdgray Aug 21 2006, 06:41 AM

Just saw this. Unbelievably sad.

Really no words

Posted by: nebreitling Aug 21 2006, 09:28 AM

wow. been travelling for a while now and just saw this. i cannot express how much i truly respect james. aside from the occasional breakfast and the often-helpful post on the board, he and i also went karting a bit together.

james is a student of damn near everything. if he doesn't know about it, he'll study it -- and be an expert in no time! he is extremely humble and humorous, to boot!

a true renaissance man whom i am proud to know, in however a limited way.

Posted by: Brent Aug 21 2006, 09:48 AM

James helped me look for a job, as I was looking for quite a long time. I didn't land the one he helped me on, but knowing a virtual stranger help me was quite overwhelming. I will miss you James! Breakfasts and your insightful board posts will be missed.

Posted by: TROJANMAN Aug 21 2006, 10:15 AM

You and I will meet again
When we're least expecting it
One day in some far off place
I will recognize your face
I won't say goodbye my friend
For you and I will meet again
~Tom Petty


Take Care James

Posted by: Dad Roberts Aug 21 2006, 10:18 AM

As many of you, I'm just now reading this. I never met James but had many conversations with him on this site and others. The emotions and feelings that I have had reading this are like so many others here. Very hard to put into words. God speed my friend...you will be truely missed.....Dad Roberts

Posted by: tat2dphreak Aug 21 2006, 10:24 AM

I am so sorry to be hearing of this, I just saw the thread today... I am still in shock... he seemed like a great guy, though I never met him in person, he will be truly missed. my thoughts are with his family.

Posted by: Travis Neff Aug 21 2006, 11:04 AM

This is horrible news. I cannot begin to fathom what his family is going through during this time. My best wishes to all.

Posted by: horizontally-opposed Aug 21 2006, 11:26 AM

QUOTE(Jake Raby @ Aug 21 2006, 05:01 AM)

Posted by: Jenny Aug 21 2006, 11:41 AM

Since no one seemed to know for sure, I called Mills and found out he's in ICU. No visitors allowed except for immediate family. Please keep up the positive thoughts for James. I will not miss James unless I have to. Instead, I'll keep him and his family in my thoughts and prayers.

Jen

Posted by: Bruce Allert Aug 21 2006, 11:45 AM

Everytime I came online to the Club I'd always see James' name (Lapuwali) somewhere on the page. As quite a few have said, he is knowledgeable in a lot of stuff.

Well, I did a Google search on both names (James Montebello and Lapuwali). Lapuwali brought up 7 pages of different items he is into from Restaurant reviews to fixing Fiats.

He is a busy man.

...b

P.s. Trojanman... that's a great verse from Tom... thanks

<edited> towards the positive

Posted by: SirAndy Aug 21 2006, 11:48 AM

QUOTE(Jenny @ Aug 21 2006, 10:41 AM)

Posted by: DNHunt Aug 21 2006, 11:53 AM

It seems like most of us have given up. I don't know anymore about James' condition than the rest of you but, I'm still praying for a miracle. Please people don't give up. What does it cost us to keep hoping and praying?

Dave

Posted by: Brad Roberts Aug 21 2006, 12:01 PM

I was told something was wrong on Sat. but I didnt get a chance to read the extent of it until today.

I'm blown away. I worked side by side with James many times on the 914's.

I still dont know what to say.


B

Posted by: Jenny Aug 21 2006, 12:18 PM

I think it was the update about him being on life support, and that he would be taken off life support that made club members think the worst. It really wasn't clear, that's why I called to ask. Let's do continue to think positive thoughts about James. Even if you're not religious, thinking about James would be a good way to honor him.

Jen

Posted by: sjhowitson Aug 21 2006, 12:19 PM

All our prayers are with Jim and his family. We will say extra prayers for him.

God Bless

Posted by: guiltless Aug 21 2006, 12:19 PM

Praying for a miracle.

I came on the board for the first time all weekend to see such sad news.

I always knew that as soon as I saw his avatar I was about to learn.

I did not know him outside of this board, but I wish I did, and I pray fervently that I may still get that chance.

You have love James. Love from a community of people who know when they are in the presence of a great man. You are such a man. You are an inspiration to us all and will live forever in the hearts and the minds of those you have touched.

Posted by: rickyhgarcia Aug 21 2006, 12:26 PM

QUOTE(Jenny @ Aug 21 2006, 10:18 AM)

Posted by: horizontally-opposed Aug 21 2006, 12:33 PM

QUOTE(rickyhgarcia @ Aug 21 2006, 11:26 AM)

QUOTE(Jenny @ Aug 21 2006, 10:18 AM)

I think it was the update about him being on life support, and that he would be taken off life support that made club members think the worst. It really wasn't clear, that's why I called to ask. Let's do continue to think positive thoughts about James. Even if you're not religious, thinking about James would be a good way to honor him.

Jen

Good call...thanks Jenny...

As long as he is alive, there is hope...

Posted by: pffft Aug 21 2006, 12:49 PM

James has been my best friend for nearly 20 years. I realize nobody here knows me a cause I tend to lurk, but I thought we could use something a bit happier right now. I found this in an old archive. No great picture, but the thought is there. And it shows him in his true element. James, Lucy and I tried to spend christmas each year on mobikes, and this was xmas 95 in Napa. James is on the right with his Hawk, which he traded to me along with another bike for his first Porche, my 2.4cis 73-6.
Come to think of it, there might be a pattern here. -grin-
Lucy's lil blue cb1 on the left came from James. Traded a 78 fiat 124 spider for it.
And the engine in the middle bike was from an RZ owned by a guy James introduced me to when we lived in Missouri. James had a tasty Ducati 750 F1 and an RX7 he autocrossed back then.

patrick

 xmas95.bmp ( 223.48k ) Number of downloads: 161

Posted by: street legal go-kart Aug 21 2006, 01:03 PM

Thanks PFFT,
The hope that we are granted a miracle to allow James to ride again is what Miss Mari, Wannateener [Dylan] and myself are praying for .

All we need to do now is help you stop being a lurker and find you a Teeener!

All our prayers,

JT

Posted by: street legal go-kart Aug 21 2006, 01:05 PM

I think James would be in agreement......

JT

Posted by: Dr Evil Aug 21 2006, 01:10 PM

Good point Jenny and thanks for checking. I too thought that the fat lady sang based on the life support post. I thought it was an attempt at breaking hte news tactfully with out spelling it out.

Still keeping the vigil

Posted by: Toast Aug 21 2006, 01:16 PM

Thank you for sharing that clip with us Patrick.

Welcome!:wavey:

Posted by: Travis Neff Aug 21 2006, 01:24 PM

Here is that picture again from Pffft


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Posted by: Marty Yeoman Aug 21 2006, 01:49 PM

Wow, I'm speechless...

Posted by: Scott Carlberg Aug 21 2006, 02:14 PM

I told and showed my Mom this thread about our friend James.

She asked, how old James is?

I didn't know, does anyone know how old James is?

Posted by: 70Sixter Aug 21 2006, 02:21 PM

Wow, I'd not thought about the number of forum posts as a measure of one's value to others. Nine pages already. Makes me think about what I might mean to others. Maybe I need to become a better person.

Add my prayers to all those you all have offered for him and his family & friends.

Posted by: pffft Aug 21 2006, 02:25 PM

QUOTE(Scott Carlberg @ Aug 21 2006, 01:14 PM)

Posted by: Joseph Mills Aug 21 2006, 02:41 PM

QUOTE(Jenny @ Aug 21 2006, 12:41 PM)

Posted by: Rouser Aug 21 2006, 02:50 PM

May peace and comfort come to James' family during this tragic period in their lives.

Will pray for a miracle.

Posted by: Brian Mifsud Aug 21 2006, 03:22 PM

My respects to Jim and his family. I met Jim online, and kicked tires with him in Silicon Valley early last year. Very nice guy, easy to talk to and a wealth of information.

He generously gave me a set of "SuperBeetle" wheels and tires.

From all the previous threads, it looks like you could assemble most of a car with everything that Jim gave away.

Perhaps honoring him in a special section of the "Classifieds" for stuff people just want to give away?

I understand what Jim and his family are going through from my dad's passing...

Best Wishes to you all...

Fair Winds to thee...

Posted by: JerryP Aug 21 2006, 03:58 PM

I wish I had met him. I've always noticed how many times my archive searches and my threads begging for help ended with one of James' posts. Smart guy....generous and patient as well to teach 914 101 to remedial students like me. Prayers for his family and many friends.

Posted by: boboli914@att.net Aug 21 2006, 04:03 PM

QUOTE(Brian Mifsud @ Aug 21 2006, 01:22 PM)

Posted by: guiltless Aug 21 2006, 04:29 PM

As will I. It's the least I could do to help honor James.

Posted by: BMXerror Aug 21 2006, 04:49 PM

Good vibes headed his way.
Mark D.

Posted by: fiid Aug 21 2006, 05:09 PM

QUOTE(Dr Evil @ Aug 21 2006, 12:10 PM)

Good point Jenny and thanks for checking. I too thought that the fat lady sang based on the life support post. I thought it was an attempt at breaking hte news tactfully with out spelling it out.

Still keeping the vigil

Posted by: Jenny Aug 21 2006, 05:25 PM

I didn't take Ed's post to state anything definately, that's why I posted asking about James and why I called Mills. Thanks for giving us an update, Fiid.

Jen

Posted by: Rotten Robby Aug 21 2006, 05:26 PM

QUOTE(fiid @ Aug 21 2006, 04:09 PM)

QUOTE(Dr Evil @ Aug 21 2006, 12:10 PM)

Good point Jenny and thanks for checking. I too thought that the fat lady sang based on the life support post. I thought it was an attempt at breaking hte news tactfully with out spelling it out.

Still keeping the vigil

That's exactly the information we were given by Susan. It's not final, but has been presented as such, which raises some confusion. Ed (who stopped by Mills over the weekend) has a call in to Susan expressing our concern for her and asking if there's anything we can do. We'll keep you posted if we hear anything.

Posted by: Jeroen Aug 21 2006, 06:36 PM

Reading that James would be taken of life support earlier in this thread had me worried for the worst, but since I never saw any definitive posts about his passing, I kept hoping he was still with us

I'm glad to hear he still is!

So... Hang in there James!
No matter how small the chances, we're still thinking of you and hoping for the best

Posted by: Pat Garvey Aug 21 2006, 07:15 PM

lapuwali!

Kick this thing. We still have a 914 Wiki to build!

Jeez, it always happens to thouse it shouldn't!!!! Damn!

Posted by: brant Aug 21 2006, 07:39 PM

Wow...
I've been out of town since thursday and just read about this.

I hope for the best for both James and his family.
brant

Posted by: Dave_Darling Aug 21 2006, 08:22 PM

I first met James about eight years ago, when a (then) co-worker of mine bought the 2.4 Six conversion, in pieces. James lived just a half-mile from my buddy's house, so the three of us pushed it to its new place together. I think that says a lot about him...

James, I hope that things are better than we think. I hope you get well soon. Best wishes from my sweetie, as well--she remembers "the guy we went karting with"...

--DD

Posted by: jonwatts Aug 21 2006, 08:23 PM

Thanks to Jenny for bringing us around. I'm still hoping for the best but bracing for the worst.

How many of you know that earlier this year James made it a project to re-wire his 914 and remove what was redundant and not needed (like why are there so many wires going to the hazzard switch?). I like to think he's doing the same thing right now.

Hell, any rational person who saw my car would never think it would drive again. Oh ye have little faith!

Too bad he's not allowed visitors. I'd like to hang out with him and watch episodes of Top Gear on my laptop.

C'mon buddy, what's it gonna take? Want us to rent Jenny a cheerleader outfit? (unless she already has her own).

Posted by: SpecialK Aug 21 2006, 08:26 PM

It's hard right now for me to even think of this right now....got another close friend dying of cancer as I type this.

James....you're definitely going to the good place,....and as a wise man (Miles) once told me after my closest friend Terry died suddenly...

"We never really lose friends, they're just waiting for us somewhere else."

and that's what I believe!


We'll see you later James!

Posted by: jonwatts Aug 21 2006, 08:32 PM

Another reason to fight it out...
http://www.hiddenitaly.com/index.cfm?page=property&id=195

Maybe a bunch of us could go stay there sometime. Of course we'd be counting on you to get us a discount.

Posted by: pffft Aug 21 2006, 08:44 PM

I spoke with James' dad this afternoon and he has a request of us.
He wants to ship the new lift in the garage back to Missouri but none of
the shippers he spoke to were willing to come pick it up. I think he said
the shipping length is 82 inches and the weight ~850 lbs. I've got the
description someplace, but I figure someone else might already know.
Hopefully some of the bay area gang will have an idea, cause I'm way
out in the sticks and have not a clue.

Andy(dad) has, among other silly things, one of James' old minis and at
least one Saab Sonnett so the rack should get good use...

Posted by: McMark Aug 21 2006, 09:00 PM

FreightQuote.com seems to be willing, but you'll need more accurate dimensions. I went through their web page and it looks like it'll be around $600 to ship. But it didn't flinch at the 82 inch length.

Posted by: SharonG Aug 21 2006, 09:00 PM

Prayers said.
Devotional candles lit.
Optimistic thoughts sent with max brainwaves.
We're with you James, Susan and family.

Posted by: pffft Aug 21 2006, 09:11 PM

QUOTE(Dave_Darling @ Aug 21 2006, 07:22 PM)

Posted by: Brad Roberts Aug 21 2006, 09:55 PM

I keep losing friends and family members.

I really wish it would stop for awhile.

My prayers are with you James.

I wish I oculd do or say something to make everything better.


B

Posted by: gregrobbins Aug 21 2006, 10:56 PM

I was looking at my photos from the last Bay Area 914 breakfast and found another shot of Lapuwali (in the middle) taken as everyone was leaving.

I’m with you Jenny (and everyone else), I want a miracle!




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Posted by: krk Aug 22 2006, 01:00 AM

I'm more of a lurker these days -- kinders and such take up my time -- but I found about this today. This is tough, and I don't like it. My very best thoughts go out in particular to those closest to James -- there is no easy way thru this. The coming days will tell us what is needed. I very, very much hope for the good side of the story. (!)

(even tho I've been out of it for a bit, I am always struck by the fact that this is a very remarkable group -- you deliver support to folks who need it without a lot of fuss and bother -- and that's not about "the car". It's about "the heart". Proud to be around y'all.)

kim.

Posted by: Rand Aug 22 2006, 01:30 AM

This just doesn't seem real.

I refuse to accept the horrible idea that we are losing James.

I don't bring religious/spiritual talk into this forum because I don't feel it's appropriate. In this case, I'm breaking the rule...

God healed my daughter. I believed He would, and I give Him the glory for it. There's a testimony there that amazed the doctors and made believers of many people.

I have experienced miraculous healing first hand, so I'm going out on my Christian limb right here. I am praying for James with the same faith I had when I prayed for my own daughter.

Don't give up. Keep praying. With God, all things are possible.

Posted by: alpha434 Aug 22 2006, 04:02 AM

One of the few guys here that didn't hassle me too much about titanium connecting rods and such. Really meant a lot. Prayer sent.

Posted by: JPB Aug 22 2006, 06:17 AM

Praying for the best for you and all who love you friend.

Posted by: bryanc Aug 22 2006, 06:45 AM

Prayers to James and his family. I just keep checking this thread hoping for some good news.....

Posted by: bd1308 Aug 22 2006, 07:20 AM

You know, before I heard the news I had thought that everythign was just too quick--nobody gave James any time to fight. But now I believe that he's just rewiring things and will be back to us soon.

I believe in God and am praying away for him to make it through.

This place I have found is much more than just a club, its like a huge family--and I enjoy everybody's contribution to the family here.

I'll keep praying until James makes it through.

Posted by: Dave_Darling Aug 22 2006, 08:52 AM

QUOTE(pffft @ Aug 21 2006, 08:11 PM)

Posted by: KaptKaos Aug 22 2006, 09:28 AM

QUOTE(Rand @ Aug 22 2006, 12:30 AM)

Posted by: Brian Mifsud Aug 22 2006, 09:47 AM

A horrible thing about brain stem injuries is that the brain WILL rewire itself... just enough to 'trick' the family into thinking their loved one is "back"...

My dad had heart failure, and couldn't be resuscitate for 22 minutes. Over the next 10 days, he went from full life support, to breathing on his own, and eventually opening his eyes. It's a cruel process, because the doctors assured us that he would never recognize us, or have any shred of a memory or thought (as far as they know).

He would look at us,... but really just stare through us and his eyes were empty...

I'm getting really sad again just writing this.

Jim is still a much younger man then my dad was. I pray for his family, that they are well informed about his condition. Any action they take will be really tough.

Posted by: guiltless Aug 22 2006, 10:49 AM

QUOTE(KaptKaos @ Aug 22 2006, 08:28 AM)

QUOTE(Rand @ Aug 22 2006, 12:30 AM)

This just doesn't seem real.

I refuse to accept the horrible idea that we are losing James.

I don't bring religious/spiritual talk into this forum because I don't feel it's appropriate. In this case, I'm breaking the rule...

God healed my daughter. I believed He would, and I give Him the glory for it. There's a testimony there that amazed the doctors and made believers of many people.

I have experienced miraculous healing first hand, so I'm going out on my Christian limb right here. I am praying for James with the same faith I had when I prayed for my own daughter.

Don't give up. Keep praying. With God, all things are possible.

Amen

Posted by: tat2dphreak Aug 22 2006, 11:34 AM

do we have any update yet?

Posted by: SirAndy Aug 22 2006, 03:28 PM

QUOTE(tat2dphreak @ Aug 22 2006, 10:34 AM)

Posted by: 914nerd Aug 22 2006, 05:20 PM

I am very new to this club, and even I recognize the wealth of information that James brought to the table.
I have read a number of his posts and found them refreshing and interesting.
He brought a mixture of intellect and compassion that is mostly unseen these days.
It is shocking that I would feel so sad about a person that I never met and had little interaction with, but everyone here at this (non)club is like family.
James, I wish you and your family the best.
Your contributions to the forums are already sorely missed and we all hope and pray that you return to us soon.

also, does anyone have the address of his family so that I might be able to send a card/flowers?
Thanks

Godspeed James
You are in all of our hearts and prayers

Charles

Posted by: mikelsr Aug 22 2006, 05:30 PM

I was doing a search today and found the answer to my question. The answers were supplied by James.

My prayers are with you and your family. I know I will continue to learn many things from the knowledge you left in these archives. God Bless you lapuwali.

Mike

Posted by: seanery Aug 22 2006, 07:06 PM

I'm not giving up...I had a friend who had an anneurism (sp?) in high school. She was a brilliant young clarinet player who had a scholarship to play in college...after the anneurism she struggled for control of her body, but after a long recovery she is living a somewhat normal life.

We were terribly worried about her, it was thought to be over a number of times, but she was strong and pulled through.

Her life was changed from what it was before, but a good life she still has lead.

My hopes and prayers are that James can have the same result.

Posted by: jd74914 Aug 22 2006, 07:11 PM

QUOTE(seanery @ Aug 22 2006, 09:06 PM)

Posted by: Eric_Shea Aug 22 2006, 07:57 PM

Posted by: bd1308 Aug 22 2006, 07:58 PM

Wait a little. I still have people donating money from the purchase of my 914 stuff...

b

Posted by: Eric_Shea Aug 22 2006, 08:04 PM

Posted by: Pat Garvey Aug 22 2006, 08:34 PM

lapuwali - come on, get back with us. We were just starting our 914 wiki! I can't do it on my own - I need your professional help......please?
Pat

Posted by: wbergtho Aug 22 2006, 08:40 PM

Paypal sent

Posted by: MrsUnFun Aug 22 2006, 08:53 PM

I'll pipe my little two cents in here as we have recently been the recipients of this club's generosity and kindness. The sentiments of kindness and concern expressed on this site, the prayers, and the considerate gestures (offers of meals, help and money) on the parts of many were a little bright light during our time of incredible worry and stress.

The flower arrangement was wonderful (complete with jack stand and 914 model car), and then the following donations almost felt like too much at the time. Now that we are several months down the road and I am trying not to have nightmares each night over the medical bills I continue to receive, the money donated to us feels so very, very helpful. As I seem to see, no matter how good one thinks their medical insurance is, the insurance companies know how to spread it pretty thin, and the bills are overwhelming. Just this afternoon I sat down with our insurance agent of ten years and spent 2 1/2 hours reading over our two inch stack of invoices. He helped me translate them into "English". I can now fight our health insurance provider over their mishandling (non-payment or short payment) of approximately 1/2 of the invoices they have received. The first hospital John landed in was overpaid $5000.00 (less my $75.00 deductible) and I would never have known this without my meeting this afternoon. Now I get to fight them for the $5000.00 back. It's seemingly incredible. I know from our own experience that any money donated will probably be appreciated.

It still blows me away - how wonderful everyone was. All I can say (again and again) is thank you.

And to James and his family and friends - our prayers and our hearts go out to you. We're here praying for your miracle - may God make it so. Keep fighting and stay strong.

Laurie, John, Jim and Ted Unthank

Posted by: jonwatts Aug 22 2006, 08:57 PM

QUOTE(Pat Garvey @ Aug 22 2006, 07:34 PM)

Posted by: Lou W Aug 23 2006, 06:13 AM

any updates?

Posted by: 914 Aug 23 2006, 07:07 AM

James & Family,
Every time I log in At the 914 club page I ck this post,Its sad to see
someone so young go through this,Our prayers are for you and
family,Hang in there and get well.
914

Posted by: tat2dphreak Aug 23 2006, 07:58 AM

QUOTE(Eric_Shea @ Aug 22 2006, 08:57 PM)

Posted by: Tobra Aug 23 2006, 08:59 AM

QUOTE(TonyAKAVW @ Aug 18 2006, 04:42 PM)

Posted by: GTeener Aug 23 2006, 01:23 PM

Crap! Late on this news. Non-club life keeping me away. I saw the banner and just read this thread. Talk about sudden! This news deeeply saddens me.

I had the fortunate pleasure of meeting James many times at our breakfast and Tied House gatherings. And he has been very generous to me with his time, knowledge and advice.

Joining in the prayers for a miracle.


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Posted by: RoadGlue Aug 23 2006, 03:40 PM

I just received an email update on James's condition from a close family friend of James and Susan. She wishes to remain anonymous at this time. I wish I had better news to share:

"You were right in your post on the Porsche board to describe James as “one of the good guys”. Unfortunately, he suffered a sudden, massive brain-stem hemorrhage, and will never regain consciousness. The family is taking comfort from their memories, and the knowledge that the nature of the catastrophic event is unlikely to have caused him pain. His wife and family have gathered, and are awaiting the inevitable end to his all-too-short life.

I spoke with his wife Susan yesterday and again this morning, and expect word of his passing at any time. When I get word of the family’s wishes with regards to a charity to which friends can make a donation, and of funeral arrangements, I will pass them on. In the meantime, please keep Susan and James and their extended families in your prayers. Please discourage the members of your group from sending flowers at this time."



I don't know what to say.

Posted by: Scott Carlberg Aug 23 2006, 03:47 PM

Randy,
I am REALLY glad you made the decision to come back here, to the *club*.
You're a valuable member.


I know the Subject of this thread is the last thing that ANY of us Ever want to share with our friends here.

Thanks for the update.


RIP James.

Posted by: ChrisNPDrider Aug 23 2006, 03:47 PM

speachless....remember the good times and live each day to the fullest

Posted by: Rand Aug 23 2006, 03:51 PM

Thanks for the update Randy. We need to hear.

I have put James on our church's prayer list (which will reach another 6000 people). While the reality of his situation may be difficult to deal with, I'm not giving up. We will continue to hope and pray and hang on all the way through this.

Come on James, we're pulling for you.

Thanks for the update. Please keep us informed.

Posted by: Jenny Aug 23 2006, 04:01 PM

Thanks for posting the update Randy.

I am really at a loss for words. I lost my grandfather to an abdominal annurism two years ago... We did the same thing for him, just waited until he was ready to go.

Jen

Posted by: Root_Werks Aug 23 2006, 04:13 PM

I lost my father to cancer last here. He walked into a hospital feeling just a little ill and passed away 3 weeks later. I feel for the family. My father was also too young. I know what they are going through.

Posted by: Boojum Aug 23 2006, 04:38 PM

Man, that is really a terrible thing. I haven't been on this board for very long time but it's very easy to see how much love and esteem all you guys have for this man. It seems like the good people in this world leave it more frequently than some others. Undoubtedly, it's the love that we feel for them that makes their tragedies more painful and more apparent.

One of the most touching things I've ever personally witnessed was when a local biker passed on; he was one of the most respected amongst his peers, and a genuine good guy. There must have been 4000 bikes at and around the mortuary, and I understand that the funeral procession was a mile long, if not more. It was an amazing event, and in retrospect I must say that few people have had a comparable sendoff.

Posted by: Bruce Allert Aug 23 2006, 05:25 PM

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Posted by: Qarl Aug 23 2006, 06:36 PM

Bad News... I've have been reading this for a few days and have been speechless.

$ sent for his fund...

RIP buddy!

Posted by: bjorn jacobson Aug 23 2006, 07:03 PM

Pypal sent, still praying for a miracle.

Posted by: Tobra Aug 23 2006, 07:33 PM

sort of figured this was what we were talking about when they said broken in head and brain stem, man that is just wrong

Posted by: Mrs. K Aug 23 2006, 10:02 PM

God be with you and your family dear James


donation sent too........



Lisa

Posted by: ThinAir914 Aug 23 2006, 10:14 PM

There are no right words to say about something like this. I've never met James, but that doesn't change the feeling of losing a very close family member. Susan and James are on my prayer list and have also been added to our church's list.

Posted by: Eric_Shea Aug 24 2006, 08:46 AM

This morning we lost a good one...

If you haven't yet, I would implore you to please donate to the Montebello family. The link is on page #4 of this thread and in various banners throughout.

100% of the proceeds will go to the family (meaning, we are covering the PayPal fees on this donation).

Show your gratitude for the tremendous contributions James has made to this board and to our lives. His words and wisdom will live on here.

Thanks James!

Posted by: RoadGlue Aug 24 2006, 08:47 AM

James's friend Patrick (pffft on this board) posted on the Fiat board this morning that James has passed on:

"James died at about 1:30 this morning.

From Susan, his wife:
"He was surrounded by family. He never suffered, and
he is at peace now.""

My deepest sympathies for his wife, family and friends. What a terrible, sudden loss.

May he rest in peace,

Posted by: jonwatts Aug 24 2006, 08:52 AM

Goodbye friend.

Posted by: Dr Evil Aug 24 2006, 09:57 AM

Thanks for everything James. I'll do my best to finish the advance curve that you were helping me on. Peace to you, your family, and friends.

I like the idea Mifsud had about doing a memorial in the form of a parts donation section for folks feeling generous. This would remember a great guy in perpetuity by doing something that he always did, giving.

Keep us posted if there is anything that we can do, of course.

We already missed your presence, James.

Posted by: SirAndy Aug 24 2006, 10:06 AM

goodby my friend, here's to all the good times we had ...

R.I.P., you'll never be forgotten ...

Posted by: BMXerror Aug 24 2006, 10:49 AM

Never knew James personally, but 'Lapuwali' was always super polite and helpful with my amture technical questions. Rest In Peace buddy.
Mark D.

Posted by: GTeener Aug 24 2006, 11:56 AM

QUOTE(RoadGlue @ Aug 24 2006, 07:47 AM)

Posted by: Qarl Aug 24 2006, 03:10 PM

What a bummer...

Raise your glass in memory of a true 914-nut tonight!



914 community has lost a few members this year... First Phil from Jacksonville, FL, now James....