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Barberdave ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Members Posts: 1,605 Joined: 12-January 03 From: Wauseon Ohio Member No.: 135 Region Association: Upper MidWest ![]() |
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At 12;00 noon to day my wife has has a Appt. with the HEART Doc. It seems see has had 2 attacks and keep that information to her self ! If it's really serious and I loose her, she has allways been a home maker I ran the bussness and was the income provider , and she did AVERYTHING else. Those of you that have faced this ' please help. You guys have been my only extened family. My kids only know the bare mim. on this ! I have been up since 3:00 A.M crying and trying to analize all psssibilites. Dave (IMG:style_emoticons/default/slap.gif) |
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You haven't seen me if anybody asks... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Members Posts: 4,738 Joined: 14-June 03 From: USA Member No.: 819 Region Association: Upper MidWest ![]() |
Dave,
Don't leave things unsaid. If she means so much to you, tell her now and let her know exactly how you feel about her. Then be there for her. Now she needs someone to lean on, and you are that person. I know it's tough with so much uncertanty, but try to only worry about things that are actual, not things that might be. Wait for test results and then react. Ask questions of the doctor. I know you may not know what to ask, but try and ask for explainations. Don't understand the lingo? Ask for clarity. Take what you learn and do whatever needs to be done. Hold onto her hand, she will like it too. Try cooking for her. It may not be great, but I bet it wil make her smile. Ask for her for "how to" instructions That being said, I wish you all the best. Take it one step at a time, enjoy each other as much as you can, and remember, leave nothing unsaid between the two of you. Ask for help if you are overwhelmed. Take time for yourself to talk to a trusted friend or to go for a walk. When you are the center, you need relief so you can be strong when needed. Kids can help here. Keep the kids informed. They may be more detached than you, and can provide needed help. Take care. Ken |
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