WAY OT: Pysco ex girlfiend!, What would you do?? Has it ever happened to you? |
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WAY OT: Pysco ex girlfiend!, What would you do?? Has it ever happened to you? |
degreeoff |
Feb 19 2007, 02:12 PM
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I like big butts and I can not lie! Group: Members Posts: 1,622 Joined: 9-February 03 From: Booowieeee MD (near DC) Member No.: 275 Region Association: MidAtlantic Region |
Alright......#1 reason to not date a girl that attempted suicide
I have been trying to break it off with this girl for 2 months....she does not make it easy, calls, cry's, shows up @ house unannounced etc etc. Started Friday night I have had it with her SHIT and break up via email...in person not working blah blah blah....she shows up once to hear it face to face, tell her I don't love her it isn't going to work....she leaves.....3 hours later (she lives 45 min away people!) she shows up again with a bag of scripts for sleeping and pops on in front of me.....I calm her down she spends the night we bump uglies (Hey I am a guy.....) BUT we are still broken up in the am. I tell her we can still talk (trying to be as nice as possible here). Next day I have with my daughter (ex and I are VERY liberal with visitation, she is not to be around @ those times being unstable and all) end of the day I drop my daughter off with mom, come home and she calls......Do do Do do Do do....conversation goes south I can tell she has taken something and ask her she says "yes" else I would kill myself (she had been in the hospital once (so she says) for trying to kill herself)....I do a double take and start telling her how she can't do that because her family and friends care for her etc etc (her family is wacko too)....conversation still gets worse and she says "I cant take it....I am going to pop some pills" and hangs up...... Alright I like this 32 year old woman very little at this point BUT can't let her do that so call the cops in her town and tell them the story.....10 calls later they were at her house and inside (I knew where the spare key was) and they call to tell me that she is not there...BAM!! she knocks on my door AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! as I am talking to police dispatch she shows up...I told dispatch this and hung up...she came in bearing a dog in one hand and a toothbrush in the other (I told you she was hard to get rid of)...we start to talk she is drugged and upset I get another call from the dispatch saying I would have to call 911 if there were any other problems. We talked a few minutes before she started to loose her temper... THEN it happens, I say " look you have to calm down or I will call the cops" thats all folks! she screamed "GO AHEAD!" "I'll make sure you never see your daughter AGAIN!" and starts to punch , kick, scratch etc etc and grabs me by my necklace (a big sucker) and won't let go screaming the whole time "HIT ME JOSH!!" now under these circumstances (shes about 150 lb 5'7" and strong) I would have loved to hit her but momma raised a good boy and I didn't but had to pin her with my knees and really WORK to get free! Once free I immediately call 911 saying get some one here (addy) NOW! THEN the UNTHINKABLE happens....she picks up my guitar case and starts hitting herself in the face with it say "you are hitting me josh!" I then say to the cops "this crazy bitch is beating herself with my guitar case!! get here NOW!!!" and hang up Now I am scratched, shirt torn, and wacked out from the adrenalin rush sitting in my kitchen as she went into the living room and laid on the couch. 5 min later the EMT's show up and go into get her make sure shes alright etc and she let them know that she is on ambien (as I did). Then the cops show up and the story get told they see I am all beat up and the EMT's took her to the hospital (she beat her lip up good with that guitar case!) I am talking with the police and express my concern over criminal charges and they say "we have not arrested you have we" and left it at that, then said you don't want to press charges do you ? you just want her out of your house right? and I am like (nice guy that I am) yeah.....so they sit around my place for a while shootin the shit, went out to the shop and we talked cars for a while (no shit) Well they let her out of the hospital around 2am she shows up to get her car and her dog (I opened the door handed her the leash and shut the door) all over right? whew glad I can get some sleep. Next day I get a summons for a restraining order and A 2nd DEGREE assault charge!! On advice of the sheriff I immediately go up to the commissioners office 9pm Sunday night and file for the same.... Wacko freak of a BITCH!! now I need a lawyer, more $$ (coulda used that on my car for cryin out LOUD!) How do I prove her wrong? I want to sue and get her locked up! Thanks for reading (it is ALL true I shit you NOT!) Josh |
GTPatrick |
Feb 19 2007, 03:49 PM
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Member Group: Members Posts: 245 Joined: 8-September 05 From: Memphis, Tn. Member No.: 4,768 Region Association: None |
Dude,
I kinda know what you are going thru . My divorce was kinda like that about the psycho bitch gig . One word of advice, STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM THAT PSYCHO BITCH ! ! ! ! No more horizontal bopping for you bro. The laws are set up to protect women and not men. The law/cops/courts look at men as half as good and twice as bad. Most women/biatches will use the law to prosecute your ass and put you away even though they are lying. She hit herself with the guitar case to try to prove that you started it by hitting you and the yelling " . . . stop hitting me . . . ." so that the cops could hear this shit going on. Since she picked up/touched that guitar case, don't touch it or clean it cuz her finger prints are on it and couold be used as evidence against her. While it is still fresh in your mind write down a timetable as to what happened and what each party said. Time of your calls to the cops, 911, emts, etc. That will be taped calls that can help you. Tape every phone call that you get from her . Depending on the law in your state you may be prevented from doing so without her knowledge/consent so tell her from the very beginning that all calls she makes to you will be recorded . Do so to protect yourself legally. Where there any witnesses in your subdivision or apartment complex where you lived who saw all of this shit go down ??? If so ask around and get their names as potential witnesses when you go to ccourt because you will wind up there. Also watch out that she doesn't falsely accuse you of rape because I have have some buds of mine had that done to them. From now on, keep a paper trail of notes of what goes on to protect yourself. When ever you go somewhere keep track of that so if she accuses you of anything in the future you can prove when , where you were to protect your self. The idea of having a video cam ready so to tape anytime she comes to your hacienda is a damn good idea. DO NOT OPEN THE DOOR to her under any circumstances. Talk thru the door and tell her to get the hell away from you. And call the cops/911 before you even go close to the door. You must do every thing in your power to protect yourself and following your attorney's advice is the first step. That psycho bitch can make your life miserable just for the sake of female/bitch revenge. There is no logic in this but that's the way some women are. Good luck dude in taking care of yourself and if you can please keep us posted of what's going on , that's if your attorney will allow it. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/aktion035.gif) |
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