QUOTE(PRS914-6 @ Jul 29 2011, 06:38 AM)
This isn't what you asked for but it may help you and others.....
I travel a lot to other countries and rarely have a problem. However, I frequently hear from my friends how rude people are in Paris. Although I must say that the people in southern France are much kinder and warmer than Paris, I found one common thing that works in all countries but is especially important in Paris.....well almost critical...
In Paris in particular, Americans are thought to be rude for good reason. They start off in English expecting the French to respond in English. For instance, in a restaurant saying "I want a Coke" with never an attempt to speak French. Remember you are in France. The number one thing you can do is to learn one simple phrase in French.....I'm sorry I don't speak French, can you help me? You will find that they laugh at your French pronunciation but will then ease your severe pain by speaking English. It's a unique experience in Paris. They hate it when you butcher their elegant language but hate it far worse when you don't try......choose your evil...If you are willing to try, the French will typically warm right up to you. You will have achieved "some" respect immediately.
90% speak English but EXPECTING them to for your benefit is another story. I had a fabulous time in France. I even had an older couple (WW2 era) come to us in a restaurant, ask if we were Americans and than immediately treated us to drinks....go figure. (southern France)
Put together a small "cheat sheet" of phrases like above....."Special of the day", please and thank you, can you help me?, my bill please, where is the WC? etc.
Again, expect a chuckle at your pronunciation but it's OK. Also, Americans are thought to always be in a big hurry....rush rush rush. Allow extra time in restaurants and such...the pace is slower and more enjoyable.
Enjoy!
very good! i lived in france for two years and loved it! key is, you are in france and should speak at least the basics - even as a tourist in any country (hi, bye, thank you and f-off).
people in paris are as friendly as people in NYC.
and think about it, what would happend to a french dude if he/she would only speaking french in NYC?