Thanks for confirming Jeff.
There are a number of options for intermittent relays, some more expensive than others. I found the 191 955 531 from RockAuto for roughly $5.
The 357 955 531 has the programmable delay.
From
http://wiki.seloc.org/a/Wiper_Variable_intermittentVarious part numbers have been put forward as replacements. Obtaining new relays is possible but the majority can be found from the local breakers yard:
Beru: 0 900 301 082
Kostal: 377 955 531
Bosch: 0 986 335 058
VW: 3B0955531 ................. has 197 printed on the top, info from Audi/VW dealer - replaces VW: 357 955 531 (type 99 below)
www.gsfcarparts.com pt no 93610
OPEL 12 38 550
SAAB 85 53 463
VW 191 955 531 ................. believed to be the standard type 19 relay
VW 357 955 531 ................. the type 99 relay
VW 321 955 531 A ............... (sourced one from theairflowmetercompany on ebay and it didnt do anything different, had no VW logo, just part number and circuit diagram printed on it, possibly a duff clone)
LIEBHERR 1 001 443 3
JOHN DEERE AZ 49 989
HAKO 90-35730-2
KRAMER 100 010 51 46
HYMER 0416073
Hella 5WG 003 620-021
Use these part numbers at your own risk!
Some certainly aren't quite the correct relays, some are!!