Thanks for the replies.
I know the car rags don't seem to like it. They seem to complain primarily about the interior being plasticy and the ride particularly with the sport package.
I've been in one at the auto show and didn't find the interior plasticy at all.
I suspect the ride won't bother me
The X-3 is quite a bit smaller than a Toureg. I also don't believe the Toureg is available with a manual transmission.
Currently there is nothing Asian on the short list, and only one thing that is not European. I'm a long standing BMW Car club member which would entitle me to a rebate (and it is entirely independent of the sales negotiation (you send the documentation after the sale))