QUOTE(Mike Bellis @ Mar 17 2015, 07:39 PM)
Check all your grounds first. Start near the headlights. Strange things can happen if the circuit sources ground path through the wiring to a "more negative".
DC voltage does not need a true ground to flow current. It only need a "more negative" than the positive source. An example is how the fog lamps work when the low beams are on and not when the high beams are on.
The fog lamp relay sources ground through the high beam lamp filament. When the high beams are on, the "more negative" turns positive and the relay turns off. This is because there is +12V on both sides of the relay coil.
So go out and check all the ground points. Clean and tighten them.
ok thanks for the info and I will go over all the grounds....where is the relay for the headlights located?