Good luck Welby!
I went through a deevorce about ten years ago and although we didnt have any kids still one of the toughest things I have had to endure.
Keep your chin up and stay focused on what works for you.
A good indicator of what will come is my avitars motto.
And this from a man who was NEVER ,NEVER getting married again!
The best woman in the west
Drive safe and fast.
JT