I replaced one when I first got my car and was getting the electrics in order,the old one was slow to flash and made little noise,replacement one was easy to hear and flashed @ the correct speed.
IMO too loud and they are a pain.
EDIT;
Also make sure you are getting a full 12volts to the relay (pin 30),if your switch is a little faulty you may not,I cleaned the contacts in my switch and it made a difference.
Good luck
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