Hey man, sorry that I havent been able to get back to your questions recently... life stuff.
The machinest dye you used is not a good indicator, and your pattern is very unclear. I prefer Prussian Blue -
https://www.amazon.com/Permatex-80038-Pruss...1218&sr=8-1The grease actually displaces where the contact is made and does a far better job at showing pattern:
Click to view attachmentDo you have links to the videos you sent me? This is a good place as many people are savvy and can help answer.
Last time we talked, there was concern that your backlash was not correct. You asked if you could change that while transmission is in the car. You cannot. I would recommend starting with taking pics of you checking your backlash as it sits before adjustment and we can all help guide how to get it set correctly.