Hey mate,
Lets start at the beginning and assure all bushings are replaced. I would advise we list all that are and have added the Porsche diagram to best assist as many times when people say they replaced ALL they actually replaced ALL that they knew about.
You have 4 major ones to replace:
2 ball type at the fire wall intersection, numbered 40 in the pic
1 firewall where the rod comes out (not in this pic)
1 cup type at the base of the shifter, number 11 in this pic.
In the shifter there are a few placed that can cause issues like wear on the bushing inside the shifter, numbers 6 and 9, and the spring plate that can wallow out making shifting worse, number 2. These are many of the usual wear items that least to suboptimal shifting.
Also, check the ball at the end of the shift rod as it can wear and need metal welded on to make it more robust again and to restore command in your shifting inputs.
Once all of that has been verified as in good keep, you can then wrestle with shifting adjustment.
You have lost R/R which are the ones on the far left shift plane. At the transmission this is reversed, so they are the ones where your ball end is rotated anticlockwise and pushes the shifter rod in the tail cone all of the way IN.
If you move the cabin shifter all of the way to the left and cannot move it fore and aft to select gears then you have to adjust the coupler, 28 in the pic, further anticlockwise as seen from looking at the firewall. What this does is change your shift rods stop point in its anticlockwise travel to further anticlockwise thus putting it into the 1/R gate.
You can try adjusting this at the rear per the pics posted previously with moving the collar bu loosening the two nuts, and sliding the collar medially and re-tightening the nuts. This moves the ball end closer to the tail cone and thus makes it easier for you to move the rod completely inward placing it into the 1/R gate. I assume you already tried this due to your posting. If I am wrong, try this first as it is less frustrating and much easier. However, you may lose 4/5 if this is not the issue that is out of alignment.
To set the shifter from a good start point, I recommend shifting into 2 or 3rd at the tail cone (in between all of the way in and all of the way out, forward is 2nd, rearward is 3rd). You can then go into the cabin and adjust the stick shifter to just rest along the spring plate with no tension in the shifter. Adjust the aforementioned adjust points to set the stick exactly where it should be and you should be all good.
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