Hi H
My first year of owning Babyblue I had the same type of "charging performance" issues, giving the same symptom as yours. My car is not a daily driver so I had time to make some mods.
As I understand it, the Optimas are a deep cycle dry cell, and require a stong, long, slow charge. The 914 charging system is good for its year and design, but dry cells are another bird. Maybe try switching back to a regular battery and see if the system is more forgiving.
I am sure that the age of our cars, is a factor to some degree. With age and heat cycles, wiring starts to loose its conductivity (sp), and add another straw to the horses back...
Anywhooo...this is what I did :
Bought an out of the box, 75 amp,72 Type 2 alternator (I think), and a brand new regulator.
I replaced the alt feed wire with a new one, bigger, crimps AND welded lugs. I installed a small 4 sloblo fuse box, next to the battery, 60 amp for the alternator feed. Same with the starter wire, minus the fuse. Bigger ground strap was installed and connected to the starter bolt, and to the body, I still kept the OEM gound strap
Almost all the connection were in good but old shape, my wires were hard and brittle.
12 years later all is still working like a champ. If I was to do it again, I would add (modify) the Group 9 regulator kit, did it on a Saab and WOW
Shit I can't find the site...
You basically remove the Regulator out of the back of the alternator (not the same as a 914) and install thier brush kit holder, wired to an external Ford regulator.
Al the mods I did, can be easily reversed, but just makes good, reliable sense
Good Luck with it
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