SirAndy
Sep 15 2007, 02:52 PM
yeah me!
slow day at work, so i'm posting my personal affairs for those of you who care ...
shannon and i are getting divorced. we've been "roomates" for the last year or so and decided to call it quits.
all good, we're still friends and all. no drama. no fighting. got the finances worked out, items split and i moved to a new place.
here's to the good times!
Andy
Scott Carlberg
Sep 15 2007, 03:00 PM
WE do care Andy.
it does SUCK that you have to be getting a divorce, though it does sound like You and Shannon have worked it out like *true friends*, which I'm guessing will make things sooooo much easier.
She didn't get the 3.6 did she???
stephenaki
Sep 15 2007, 03:09 PM
Been there, done that, 9 years before I figured it out. Best of luck, now go out and have some beer!
SirAndy
Sep 15 2007, 03:14 PM
QUOTE(Scott Carlberg @ Sep 15 2007, 01:00 PM)
She didn't get the 3.6 did she???
she actually did ask if she could have it!
Andy
TROJANMAN
Sep 15 2007, 03:23 PM
Moab probably can't get here soon enough
I know I can't wait
morph
Sep 15 2007, 03:36 PM
BTDT sorry to hear andy ,at least it ended peacefully.not like my last
it wasnt,pretty nor fun
but andy your a smart and intresting person of course we care about you.
james
Scott Carlberg
Sep 15 2007, 03:38 PM
QUOTE(SirAndy @ Sep 15 2007, 12:14 PM)
QUOTE(Scott Carlberg @ Sep 15 2007, 01:00 PM)
She didn't get the 3.6 did she???
she actually did ask if she could have it!
Andy
..did you offer instead, that
shaky camera of yours?
Brent
Sep 15 2007, 03:53 PM
QUOTE(TROJANMAN @ Sep 15 2007, 02:23 PM)
Moab probably can't get here soon enough
I know I can't wait
Welcome back to the club. It sucks in a way, but our focus and time comes back! To us. More time for beer and 914's.
Mrs. K
Sep 15 2007, 03:53 PM
..........wait..........were you really married or just roomies and partners who
are breaking up now?
Lisa
1970 Neun vierzehn
Sep 15 2007, 03:55 PM
Once again,
SirAndy
Sep 15 2007, 03:58 PM
QUOTE(Mrs. K @ Sep 15 2007, 01:53 PM)
..........wait..........were you really married or just roomies and partners who
are breaking up now?
Click to view attachment
1970 Neun vierzehn
Sep 15 2007, 04:07 PM
Nice formal wear Andy
SirAndy
Sep 15 2007, 04:35 PM
QUOTE(1970 Neun vierzehn @ Sep 15 2007, 02:07 PM)
Nice formal wear Andy
well, it was her 3rd and my 2nd, so we both were pretty much over the whole dressing up thing anyways (not that i did dress up much for my first wedding either, but i did wear a ripped tuxedo from the thrift store
) ...
Andy
markb
Sep 15 2007, 04:45 PM
Condolences & congrats, Andy. I'm glad yours was an easy split. Nothing is worse than having to deal with an angry ex. Here's to better days.
Mueller
Sep 15 2007, 05:45 PM
bummer.....but it sounds like you've worked things out and it wasn't the biggest shock of your life...anyways, I know she'll be missed at some of the funtions and events
SGB
Sep 15 2007, 07:34 PM
Live on my freinfd!
hwgunner
Sep 15 2007, 07:38 PM
Andy, my first one went almost like that. It gets better.
dflesburg
Sep 15 2007, 07:55 PM
No kids I take it....
Congratulations!
Now, take time to figure out how to avoid repeating the same senerio again...
rktmn247
Sep 15 2007, 08:08 PM
Sorry to hear of this and wish you the best for the future. I have been divorced twice and have been seperated from my current wife for almost seven years. We only stay married for the insurance and tax benifits. All three times it was quite painfull for me initially; but things are really good now and I really like my freedom! When my friends are all trying to figure out how to get out for drinks or other social events. I have no one to check with or answer too. It's great!
Pat Garvey
Sep 15 2007, 08:35 PM
QUOTE(SirAndy @ Sep 15 2007, 03:58 PM)
QUOTE(Mrs. K @ Sep 15 2007, 01:53 PM)
..........wait..........were you really married or just roomies and partners who
are breaking up now?
Click to view attachmentWow!
T-Shirt, camouflage & chocolate cake.
Hotel California at its best!
Seriously, sorry it didn't work out!
Pat
ConeDodger
Sep 15 2007, 09:29 PM
Sorry Andy... Every door opens to a new opportunity and life is usually better. Hope it works out that way for you....
VaccaRabite
Sep 15 2007, 10:33 PM
I'm sorry to hear this, Andy. Even the easy ones suck.
Zach
Lou W
Sep 15 2007, 11:37 PM
QUOTE(ConeDodger @ Sep 15 2007, 08:29 PM)
Sorry Andy... Every door opens to a new opportunity and life is usually better. Hope it works out that way for you....
BTDT, mine lasted 20 years. Things work out better foir the both of you if you can stay friends. Good luck.
elwood-914
Sep 16 2007, 12:26 AM
Divorces are good and bad. It was bad for me at first but it was for the best (not that I'm going to tell her) I am happier now than I have in quite awhile. Hope it works out for you.
So.Cal.914
Sep 16 2007, 05:48 AM
If you are happier now it was a good thing, if not, just say 'Fuck it' and you'll feel better soon. Start dating OpaAndy...
Gint
Sep 16 2007, 10:36 AM
Shit happens... a guy's gotta do what a guy's gotta do.
See ya in Moab!
toon1
Sep 16 2007, 11:09 AM
SOrry to hear Andy, sounds like it's for the best. Good luck,
BTDT,
cooltimes
Sep 16 2007, 11:40 AM
Life has some pits that we change OUR oils at from time to time.
What is best for you is best for the others in your life. Good fortune to you.
Curious I am.
Did the spectacular 914 efforts you consistently give this and other 914 forums, fun and events have anything to do with this?
Any advise to others?
Cooltimes
"May all the important roads in your life be found on your be happy map."
TJB/914
Sep 16 2007, 12:30 PM
Andy,
Sorry to hear about your marital status.
We care about you and hope you overcome this setback in life. Your in my prayer's for future happyness. It will happen.
Thanks for all you do on 914-World. I really miss this forum when it's down.
Tom
Dave_Darling
Sep 16 2007, 01:42 PM
Bummer--I'll miss seeing Shannon at 914 events, I thought she was pretty neat!
Lisa says she's sorry to hear it, and that I'm not allowed to get any idears.
It's good that everything is going smoothly.
--DD
Dr. Roger
Sep 16 2007, 01:42 PM
you know she asked for the 3.6 to *uck with you.... LOL
my divorce was one of the best things that ever happened to me.
you probably know how many fantastic women there are out there. i suggest you attend the Burning Man Decompression Party coming up soon. Plenty of ummmmm... nice ladies and right down your alley.
Roger
MartyYeoman
Sep 16 2007, 02:51 PM
The things you can find on the internet...
Sorry to hear of your split-up. Shannon was an interesting gal. I hope you're staying local.
SirAndy
Sep 16 2007, 03:51 PM
yeah, it's all good.
and no, my 914 habit had nothing to do with it (i think
) ...
it's been really interesting to be part of the dating-pool again.
Andy
jwalters
Sep 16 2007, 06:01 PM
JPB
Sep 16 2007, 07:56 PM
Sorry to hear. I'm happy to see you both are still good to each other even to the end. That says alot about the two of you.
DNHunt
Sep 17 2007, 08:27 AM
For what it's worth Andy, I care. I hope it will not be a big setback and the future will be better for you. It sounds like you are OK with it and for that I'm thankful. Hang in there
Dave
jimkelly
Sep 17 2007, 08:38 AM
good luck to you - you do realize this means you will need to start showering again - only of course until you settle in with a new girl : ) jim
tdgray
Sep 17 2007, 08:43 AM
You know what they say... what doesn't kill ya... umm...umm... doesn't kill ya ( I guess)
Jenny
Sep 17 2007, 10:39 AM
Andy, I figured you and Shannon would remain friends after the divorce. I'm glad to hear it worked out (well, relatively speaking). Although I will miss seeing her at events. She's a riot, and collected some pretty cool artwork (and shoes!). In either way, thanks for sharing with us. Even if it was out of sheer boredom.
Take care, and cheers!
Jen
Coy
Sep 17 2007, 02:09 PM
I don't know what to say, but that I'm sorry you have to go thru something like that. But on the bright side, everything always works out for the best as long as we keep breathing in and out. Best wishes to you both.
Scott Carlberg
Sep 17 2007, 05:30 PM
Andy,
you strike me as being OK - IF - Shannon ever wanted to drop by a 914 meet and say Hello (or so-long)
boxstr
Sep 17 2007, 08:14 PM
Andy???
CCLINDIVORCECOURT
0396
Sep 18 2007, 12:04 AM
Andy, like some one said "Sorry to hear of this and wish you the best for the future"
Keep busy and stay focus on other things..... I was almost there myself!
Dr. Roger
Sep 18 2007, 02:14 AM
maybe this will cheer you up....
HEREHope you like boobies....
nomore9one4
Sep 18 2007, 07:48 AM
QUOTE(Dr. Roger @ Sep 18 2007, 12:14 AM)
maybe this will cheer you up....
http://grubbenterprises.com/Burning Man 2007.wmv
[url=http://grubbenterprises.com/Burning Man 2007.wmv]HERE[/url]
Hope you like boobies....
We love boobies, although your link does not work!
VaccaRabite
Sep 18 2007, 08:36 AM
QUOTE(faux916 @ Sep 18 2007, 09:48 AM)
QUOTE(Dr. Roger @ Sep 18 2007, 12:14 AM)
maybe this will cheer you up....
http://grubbenterprises.com/Burning Man 2007.wmv
[url=http://grubbenterprises.com/Burning Man 2007.wmv]HERE[/url]
Hope you like boobies....
We love boobies, although your link does not work!
Copy, paste works like a charm.
Zach
So.Cal.914
Sep 18 2007, 10:17 AM
QUOTE(SirAndy @ Sep 16 2007, 02:51 PM)
You understand, this is from a married Guy... We can dream can't we?
brer
Sep 18 2007, 11:50 AM
QUOTE(faux916 @ Sep 18 2007, 06:48 AM)
QUOTE(Dr. Roger @ Sep 18 2007, 12:14 AM)
maybe this will cheer you up....
http://grubbenterprises.com/Burning Man 2007.wmv
[url=http://grubbenterprises.com/Burning Man 2007.wmv]HERE[/url]
Hope you like boobies....
We love boobies, although your link does not work!
Ashley? I was wondering where she got to
ruddyboys
Sep 18 2007, 03:38 PM
Were did you go for that, looks like a great time.
Jenny
Sep 18 2007, 04:21 PM
QUOTE(ruddyboys @ Sep 18 2007, 01:38 PM)
Were did you go for that, looks like a great time.
Burning Man
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