So you do what I do- rig up a "U" shape w/ 4x4 blocks, then position the tops of the upright blocks directly on the bolts that support the ears of the tranny. This way the upward force of jacking [off]
is being applied to the bottom of the trunk. Two things to make sure of:
1) The length of the uprights is long enough to contact the bolts from the jack in resting position, otherwise you won't get the lift you need to place jackstands.
2) Make sure to secure the uprights to the bottom block w/ nails or screws to prevent unexpected slipping. Learnt that one the hard way.
There's probably still a risk of bending or deforming the trunk pan, but it's safer than putting potentially damaging stress on the ears of the tranny. But so far I've done this multiple times so far w/out any damage.