I agree TFS fixed a lot of issues, but I wouldn't put it passed them to mess up something new. Most likely the heads are good but not guaranteed.
don't arbitrarily try short pushrods. I missed the pic of the broken rocker (you posted it while I was typing my previous post). I bet they press the cup in, have too little meat there and the hoop stress combined with some issue you have is causing the rockers to fail. To do that damage and not damage a Prod means the rocker is weak.
As for Prod length, with bolt down rockers, you need to watch how much compression you get in the lifter to determine pushrod length. Geometry is unadjustable other than shimming, but that should be kept to a minimum.
Sometimes lifters don't want to bleed down while you adjust and they want to lift the valve - that is okay. The old-skool rule of thumb still applies in that you should finger tighten to zero slack, then have only an additional 1/2 to 3/4 of a turn to seat the rocker on the stand, then you final torque. If you get more than a full turn you should consider shorter pushrods and that is the only reason to do that.
After it is fully seated and torqued, then you roll the engine over by hand and verify geometry. I wrote a magazine article on how to correctly read rocker geom about 10yrs ago now for one of the Ford magazines now that I think about it hahaha - forgot about that 'til now. Anyway...
It is completely possible that the geom is F'd up from the factory - a set of aftermarket Chevy heads came out about 2yrs ago cast in China, machined in Australia and hit the states (this is pretty much standard procedure for all the alum heads and many are being machined in China now as well). The geometry was complete crap, so the owner of the biz having the heads done came by Troy's shop (I was correcting this stuff while I was visiting him hahahaha) and we showed him that he had to relocate the stud 1/8" to fix it. Little crap like that will make a huge difference in geometry. I really shoulda charged that guy for that
he has made a FORTUNE on those heads now.