Oh, and if you go to any of the resorts that are near the Magic Kingdom, you have to go through the toll gates to get to 'em, but if you tell them you're going to a resort to eat, they'll let you through without charging you. (Hey, $7 is $7!) Get reservations ahead of time and bring the confirmation number with you. The Resort security gate will want that info when you get there.
I haven't been to the Malibu Grand Prix in Orlando, but the one in Dallas certain rocked!
Grand Floridian is gorgeous, but I haven't eaten in their nice restaurant. Polynesian has a Luow (sp?) that's kinda fun (fire dancers and all), but not exactly a classy wine & dine.