Well i went to do some more cleaning on my engine and found a decent sized pool of oil underneath it.. after inspection i found that the inner push rod tube seals are leaking ALOT.. soo looks like i have more work ahead.. and this thing is leaking too but i don't know what it is..Click to view attachment

That is an oil gallery plug, and is a good thing to have in place instead of the factory plugs.
Use an allen wrench to remove it, and replace it with a liberal coating of case sealant.

sounds easy enough. now what about the oil seal for the shift linkage arm at the tranny? how do i go about changing that?

Did the tranny seal last week, easy job to fix the leek, I followed this guide

replace tranny select seal

If you dont want to fix the selector seal yourself, I offer an exchange service.

anyone have the part number for the tranny select seal? because i can't find the damn thing on PP

I have them in stock if you need one. PM me.