Feel free to add your own thoughts to this. Mostly humorous.
No one that is allowed into this forum is allowed to talk about this forum to anyone that is not allowed in the forum. (fight club rules )
Never talk bad about anyone who is on this site. Some day they may become a 914 Angel and read what you typed about them. Our goal is good feeling not bad ones.
We can't help everyone. Sometimes someone is going to want help. The team in charge of making decisions about our abilities and limitations may decide to help someone else. It will happen. We can feel bad about it but lets not let it interfere with the goal.
The Goal:
Give to someone who is hurting. Do it in a manor that does not impose on them or make them feel like there are strings.
Example: Chip Foose. A generious man. Found a way to give what he can to others but the corperate sponsors now own him and he is their puppet. " We built this car for you" ( with the help of O'Rielly Auto Parts" ) Lets avoid strings. It's going to happen, but we need to find a way to keep it to a minimum.
Anyone disagree? I'm kind of a nut.