No more Ebay or paypal for Me Options

[spare time toys]

I dont know if you remember those BBS wheels I was selling for the guy at work. This guy in Washington won them and I sent them to him. He sends me an email about how he is having trouble finding tires for 11 inch wide 15inch rims. I tell him to check Cocker, Hoosier and a couple of other places that he can find them but they are not cheap. Well he looks into the cost of the tires then e mails me about how much tires are going to cost and how you have to take the wheels apart to change tires and I should have put that in the listing. I told told him he should have checked into that before he purchased them. Well he files a complaint with EBAY and PAYPAL wanting his money back. He sends in this super long complaint making me out to be the Devil because I would not refund his money and the rims are junk I pulled off some reck. There was nothing wrong with the rims other than 1 small curb rash but they were not bent. PayPal lets you have all of 200 characters to answer the complaint. There is no way I can go into the details of how he is a whiner who changed his mind after he found out the cost of tires. Well PAYPAL finds in his favor and says I must give him his money back. He is to ship them to me at his cost then they will tap my account for $795.00 I have no say. So I call them and after 35 minutes on hold I get a customer service rep who all she can say is I must email them my side. In the mean time the buyer takes the wheels to FEDEX to ship them and finds out it will cost him a ton to ship so he goes to EBAY and gives me a bad feed back. EBAY has me locked out because of the dispute so I cant reply. So as of 20 min. ago I have canceled my EBAY and PAYPAL. I am just going to do swap meets or sell here or the bird board.