Hmmmmm.....
Well I have 2 answers for you....
First, answer was my buddy's policy - she has to "earn it"!
My good buddy who still owns his 71 since new, initially drove his 914 DD for about a year, & then bought a 72 Datsun pick-up for his DD - yes, Datsun - not Nissan.
From that point on he sparingly drove his 914 since, & no gal got a date ride in it until she proved she was a keeper! I don't think that policy was popular amongst the gals, but then
NOBODY got to even see it much, let alone ride in it!
That policy - as well as limited use & even rolling it out of the garage & back for it's monthly bath - kept the miles on it to about 61000 miles today, & helped him live up to his nickname of "Mr. Perfect"! The pic below shows it at <61000 miles, still with the original paint & interior & driveline, from a couple of years ago while he was still out here in SoCal & came out to our PCA OC Region's Porsches & Doughnuts at Krispy Kreme in Orange.
Click to view attachmentSecond - and the pic above at least adds 914 content - since when is the Garage Forum the place for dating advice!? And it's not even tagged as OT!
I mean really, you hardliners on here will run off & complain about a group of our UK, Aussie, Kiwi & American 914er members talking about Rugby & 914s during the RWC,
but this is not Sandbox material!!?? If Dating Advice is not Sandbox material, then I don't know what is!
Logo - you said pull no punches, so that's my honest opinion.
However, only you can really judge with this particular person, which car to take, from what you know so far about her. It may depend upon whether you're going for a sunny SoCal daytime drive - maybe top off (the car ;-), or a evening out in cool weather.
I'll suggest a novel approach - just ask her!
Hopefully this last part is helpful.
Have Fun either way!
Tom
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