Mark and Ray stopped by my house today to do some debug on the fuel pump relay issue.
We made several steps forward and a couple of steps backwards.
First when trying to see what works on the car, I put the turnsignal stalk to left turnsignals and it wouldn't go back to neutral. So every time we powered the car the left turnsignal was blinking.
We traced a couple of wires on the 911 harness and realized the switched power to pin 86 of the fuel pump relay wasn't connected to switched power. Once connected, the fuel pump would run with ignition power. Success 1!
Next the wire to the starter from the DME needed to be connected to the 914's yellow starter wire. After these 2 connections, the car started and ran as expected. When the engine was turned off, the fuel pump would also turn off. Success 2!
The step backwards was realization that the ignition switch did not switch power off. Power on fuse #8 was always on. Once started, the engine could not be turned off until it stalled on its own, or the fuel pump relay was pulled or the battery cable removed.
Things to do to finish the install:
1) Figure out why the ignition switch doesn't switch off power.
2) Connect yellow wire on the 911 harness (runs fuel pump when cranking) to the 914 yellow wire to the starter bendix.
3) Fix the turnsignal stalk so it doesn't stick on the left turnsignal.
Question about the starter wire from ignition switch for those who know 911 engine transplants: Where is the best place to tap into the starter wire from the ignition switch? This is the smaller yellow wire that goes from the ignition switch to the original 914 relay board on pin 1 of the 14 pin connector, to the bendix on the starter.