I have a few suggestions about how to succeed at autocrossing.
1) Don't fuck with the car at the event. Learn to drive what you have, and work around the shortcomings. When you are concerned about what needs to be changed you aren't concerned enough with your driving. Obviously the problem is not the car if someone else can get in and beat you by 2 seconds. The most you should change at the AX is the tire pressures, but definitely not after only one run.
2) Use the first run for familiarization, not for time. If you try too hard you will lock up the brakes by going in too deep, and lose track of where the course goes. Figure out where the most time is to be gained, where the longest fastest parts are, and plan to maximize them. Most importantly you need to memorize the course without mistakes during the first run. If you were paying attention during your walk throughs (3 or more) then the first run should go smoothly. Also, the first two runs are to heat up the tires to operating temps, not to set FTD. During the second run you can begin to test the limits, but don't go for broke yet.
3) Don't use third gear unless the course is real fast. Time lost on the rev limiter will be made up by not shifting up and down. Make a couple of good runs, then try a different combination to see if something can be gained.
4) Don't try to corner on the limits until you have the course nailed. It's much more important to be able to go fast on the straights, which requires full control at corner exit.
5) Sometimes going wide to enter or exit a corner takes longer because of the greater distance travelled. Using all the road only works in the fastest sections. Make sure you
can hit the apex cone with the tires, but don't.
6) Make sure you can apply all the power without wheel spin when entering a long straight. Give up something on the entry if necessary in order to straighten out the wheels early at the exit.
7) 914s can make up a lot of time in a slalom if you get the timing right. You want to already be pointed toward the next turn in point as you go by the previous cone. If you are still turning as you go by the cone, you are too late, and will have to turn more, which is slower.
I'm sure there is more. I'll think about it some.
As far a setting up the suspension, the 914 is pretty well balanced from the start. If only 3 tires are touching the ground you are clearly giving up some cornering traction. Don't compare it to a 911 on 3 wheels. I agree with whoever said to increase the front torsion bars. Then you can rebalance the car with the sway bar. With the way your car appears in the pictures, if you are getting oversteer it is either from trailing throttle or excessive throttle, not balance.