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| lincoln |
 Jan 14 2006, 07:13 PM
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daughter just told me shes going to get her tongue pierced tonight, shes 19 so i told her its her choice , i bet it dont last 2 weeks heheh
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| Jeroen |
Jan 14 2006, 09:06 PM
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914 Guru Group: Members Posts: 7,887 Joined: 24-December 02 From: The Netherlands Member No.: 3 Region Association: Europe |
my wife and I agreed: no dating for our daughter 'till she's 30
hey... a dad can dream, right (IMG:http://www.914world.com/bbs2/html/emoticons/laugh.gif) |
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| SirAndy |
Jan 14 2006, 09:42 PM
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Resident German Group: Admin Posts: 41,678 Joined: 21-January 03 From: Oakland, Kalifornia Member No.: 179 Region Association: Northern California |
(IMG:http://www.914world.com/bbs2/html/emoticons/thisthreadisworthlesswithoutpics.gif) sorry, couldn't resist ... (IMG:http://www.914world.com/bbs2/html/emoticons/biggrin.gif) as far as i'm concerned, let her do whatever she wants, 19 is more than old enough. my daughter is 16. tattoos and piercings and all. and i would love her just as much if she hadn't. as long as she's happy, i'm happy ... (IMG:http://www.914world.com/bbs2/html/emoticons/aktion035.gif) Andy |
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| lincoln |
Jan 14 2006, 09:49 PM
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Member Group: Members Posts: 174 Joined: 9-December 05 From: Killeen Texas Member No.: 5,253 Region Association: None |
feel the same way- just told her its her decision and before she DOES it, to consider whther or not she really wants it, will still love her no matter
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| TravisNeff |
Jan 14 2006, 10:01 PM
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914 Guru Group: Members Posts: 5,082 Joined: 20-March 03 From: Mesa, AZ Member No.: 447 Region Association: Southwest Region 
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Just make sure whenever you talk to her to slur like she will for a couple weeks, lol.
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| mharrison |
Jan 14 2006, 10:36 PM
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Why do I bother???? Group: Members Posts: 633 Joined: 8-September 03 From: Madison, MS Member No.: 1,123 |
A neat memory idea.
While she's talking with the bad slur right afterwards, record a conversation with her. It will be a riot years down the road. |
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| Pugbug |
Jan 14 2006, 11:04 PM
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Member Group: Members Posts: 449 Joined: 14-February 05 From: Victoria, BC Member No.: 3,604 |
I thought lesbians started the tonge piercing thing.....You know.....to enhance the feeling....Let her know this.....Maybe she'll change her mind
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| lincoln |
Jan 14 2006, 11:15 PM
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Member Group: Members Posts: 174 Joined: 9-December 05 From: Killeen Texas Member No.: 5,253 Region Association: None |
well, basically shes been a great kid, no trouble in school, no trouble with boys, doesnt drink, doesnt use drugs, she never really even asks for a lot of stuff like some kids will do. out of all her friends she went to school with she was the only one who graduated on time.
so ive been letting her make her own decisions since she turned 18 so she can begin to understand what she can expect in life and to get her used to accepting responsibility for her own actions. so far she is doing well , wish i had been that good a kid growin up lol |
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| messix |
Jan 14 2006, 11:45 PM
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AKA "CLUTCH KILLER"! Group: Members Posts: 6,995 Joined: 14-April 05 From: between shit kickers and pinky lifters/ puget sound wa.north of Seattle south of Canada Member No.: 3,931 Region Association: Pacific Northwest |
while still with my ex, her 15 yr old went and got the tongue stud. i sat her down and had the talk that every man that see's that her tongue is pierced will think the same thing about her and why she did it, and is that what she really wanted people to think about her. three weeks later it was out and gone.
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| Joe Bob |
Jan 15 2006, 12:10 AM
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Retired admin, banned a few times Group: Members Posts: 17,427 Joined: 24-December 02 From: Boulder CO Member No.: 5 Region Association: None |
At least it's better than a "tramp stamp" across the back above the ass crack....
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| Howard |
Jan 15 2006, 12:14 AM
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Incontin(g)ent Member Group: Benefactors Posts: 5,785 Joined: 24-July 03 From: Westlake Village, CA Member No.: 943 Region Association: None 
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It will heal over once she removes it. Think of it as purple hair (IMG:http://www.914world.com/bbs2/html/emoticons/smile.gif) |
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| SirAndy |
Jan 15 2006, 12:23 AM
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Resident German Group: Admin Posts: 41,678 Joined: 21-January 03 From: Oakland, Kalifornia Member No.: 179 Region Association: Northern California |
what's wrong with purple hair ??? (IMG:http://www.914world.com/bbs2/html/emoticons/confused24.gif) (IMG:http://www.914world.com/bbs2/html/emoticons/biggrin.gif) Attached thumbnail(s) 
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| jimtab |
Jan 15 2006, 01:14 AM
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Advanced Member Group: Members Posts: 3,477 Joined: 5-January 03 From: Pacifica, California Member No.: 91 Region Association: Northern California |
Z, up here they call em LA Licence Plates..... (IMG:http://www.914world.com/bbs2/html/emoticons/confused24.gif) |
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| MoveQik |
Jan 15 2006, 02:33 AM
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What size wheels can I fit? Group: Members Posts: 4,645 Joined: 5-April 05 From: Scottsdale, AZ Member No.: 3,881 Region Association: Southwest Region |
Hey wait a minute.....a woman that I am about to go to New York with for our ten-year anniversary just got one of those about a month ago. (IMG:http://www.914world.com/bbs2/html/emoticons/dry.gif) Oh well, WTF. I LOVE it! |
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| Brando |
Jan 15 2006, 04:30 AM
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BUY MY SPARE KIDNEY!!! Group: Members Posts: 3,935 Joined: 29-August 04 From: Santa Ana, CA Member No.: 2,648 Region Association: Southern California |
... or her lifestyle! |
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| DNHunt |
Jan 15 2006, 08:28 AM
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914 Wizard? No way. I got too much to learn. Group: Members Posts: 4,099 Joined: 21-April 03 From: Gig Harbor, WA Member No.: 598 |
It won't heal when she removes it without surgery. The hole just gets very small. If she is going to do it make sure she goes to a place that is meticulously clean. Sterile or disposable stuff. Make sure they pierce it in the midline cause there are some blood vessels that you don't want to mess with. I don't understand it but then I'm kind of old.
Having said that I've never had to deal with a problem related to pierced tongues except a couple of chipped teeth. Some people get tarter (dental calculus) on the studs and that can cause a little inflamatiion in the piercing especially on the underside of the tongue. I charge extra to clean up the studs but I think it's something that should be done. One good thing people with piercing pay more attention to their tongues so they keep their tongues cleaner. Pierced lips are more of a problem cause the inside part of the stud causes increased gum recession on people who are prone to that Dave |
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| Joe Bob |
Jan 15 2006, 09:59 AM
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Retired admin, banned a few times Group: Members Posts: 17,427 Joined: 24-December 02 From: Boulder CO Member No.: 5 Region Association: None |
Meaning....you can't go.....erase, erase...or pull a stud....it's a PERMANENT tattoo... Right now my little monster took 7 hours to clean her room....in retrospect....it's NOW not that big a deal.... |
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| Allan |
Jan 15 2006, 10:09 AM
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Teenerless Weenie Group: Members Posts: 8,373 Joined: 5-July 04 From: Western Mesopotamia Member No.: 2,304 Region Association: Southern California |
I was told once that it can cause a loss of taste.
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| drgchapman |
Jan 15 2006, 10:11 AM
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Current Stable Group: NoClassifiedAccess Posts: 922 Joined: 20-September 04 From: Portland, OR Member No.: 2,789 Region Association: Pacific Northwest |
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Dave's on a roll this morning........ |
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| rick 918-S |
Jan 15 2006, 10:20 AM
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Hey nice rack! -Celette Group: Members Posts: 20,492 Joined: 30-December 02 From: Now in Superior WI Member No.: 43 Region Association: Northstar Region
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I don't have girls, but I have two boys and one girlfriend living here. Heres the rules, NO tats, or Piercing or anything like it under my roof period. This is not negociable! By this time kids move out these days they are usually past the fad.
My 16 year old son has had the same girl friend for about a year. she had her lip peirced. The first time it didn't work out, she waited a month and want back and had it done again.... (IMG:http://www.914world.com/bbs2/html/emoticons/screwy.gif) Hey, She's 18 and out of school, still lives with her parents. Soooo... That's for her parents to deal with. I'm sure my youngest will get a Tat or 10 when he moves out. He a musician type. I just hope he doesn't turn out to look like that drummer on Meet the Barkers! Look at ME! Look at ME! (IMG:http://www.914world.com/bbs2/html/emoticons/cool_shades.gif) Bunch of meaningless tats for the sake of getting then. (IMG:http://www.914world.com/bbs2/html/emoticons/jerkit.gif) In response to your thread title; Be a Dad Not a Buddy. Tats and Piercings are life course altering. When your daughter is 24 and out of collage with the tools to pursue a successful professional life, then see if she still wants to get the tongue thing done. Let the flames begin. |
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