Long Version:So I was driving my car today. Still had the same low RPM, high RPM issues. I picked up a piece of 2" coolant hose from the FLAPS with which to attach my O2 sensor rig to the tailpipe. Worked like a charm and so I was able to see my fuel ratio while driving for the first time. I noticed that my car was running rich at low RPM (I figured this) and lean at high RPM. Around 3700 RPM things were good at 14.4:1. So with this new information I stopped by the side of the road and tinkered with some of the settings in the fuel map. When I pulled away it was like driving a normal car! Holy crap it was easy. There's still some fine tuning to be done as well as replacing my valve springs and pushrods (next week). Looks like I might have this thing 100% dialed in quicker than I thought.
I'll probably rope Trekkor into helping me tune. He can drive and I'll read the meters and change the settings. Hot damn, I'm excited.
Short Version: Tuning the EMS with a wideband O2 sensor IS REALLY EASY.