Wow..... I love providing my inputs to stuff like this
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Coming from a professional womanizer... who's dated what seems like half the female St. Louis population over the past couple years..... I have some good advice...
Only because I'm now married
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Speed dating sucks. You only have a few minutes to impress her... or unimpress her.... and any "attraction" that the two of you may end up having, will be based on looks alone. Youi've got a better chance meeting a nice girl in a bar.... at least then you have the opportunity to talk to her for more than 5 minutes.
My advice? Try Internet personals.
Yea.. go ahead and laugh.... The fatties, the psychos..... the crossdressers..... Whatever... I've met a couple HUNDRED (yes, I said it) women over the Internet..... including my WIFE.
The Internet allows you to spend as much time as you like getting to know her.. as well as her, you. There's very little pressure because if you do it right, you already know eachother pretty well from phone conversations by the time you meet.
And don't listen to the people that tell you all the women on the Internet are fat..... that is SO not true... you just have to be smart about your searches.
Best of luck.. if you need help or have questions... feel free to PM me.
--Matt